|
Help with a dream!
I had a dream I came in my room and my boyfriend was going through my phone crying. What could this me ? It was weird my manager was in it as well.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Hi. Just reading through your prevvious replies. All wise comments. The objects, people and environment in our dreamscapes rarely map directly onto real life situations, they are always 'coded' and the decryption lies in identifying what 'phone' 'boyfriend' and 'manager' represent to you personally. Confidentiality and trust, accountability/culpability, communication and authority figures would seem the likeliest general areas to start with here. Issues with any/all these at the moment? The detonator, as you might say, for the vivid (and recalled on waking) dreams is usually 'conflict anxiety'. Your subconscious mind keeps motoring-on and arguing the pros and cons of the case, trying to make a decision, even when you should be peacefully sleeping! It's incredibly unlikely that it's a premonition of an actual scenario involving a heartbroken boyfriend, your boss and your phone! That would be precisely predicting the future. And this we cannot do.
]
Sometimes, our subconscious will give us clues in dreams of things we need to take care of, or memories of things we did when younger, sometimes placing you in the movie you watched earlier, stuff like that.
So not always does it need to mean anything. Its when the same dream repeats a couple of time that its time to pay attention and figue it out. My own sister had several nightmares a week of seeing people dying in Hurricane Katrina a year before it happened. She had no idea what it was about until after the Hurricane hit. And then the dreams stopped.
In real life, do both you and bf have permission to go through each others phones whenever you wish to? If you both have nothing to hide, perhaps going through your phone in a dream means there isn't enough trust in each other. Again it may mean nothing. The crying is something your subconscious stuck in there because it is out of our emotions that our subconscious will put certain things in dreams Like a fear factor, anger, crying, happiness, laughing. So the crying may not even be an important factor. Not enough info to even get an idea of what a manager was in dream for, but if you have issues with feeling less superior to other people, including bf and manager, it might simply be they are both in same dream to tell you that you need to feel better about yourself, valueable, not inferior to someone else in a position of responsibility/leadership. I say this because even though couples should be equals, sometimes a woman falls into a rut of allowing the man to totally lead the relationship.
Again, it may not have anything to do with the actual cell phone but a message about information. Cell phones are ways of communication and getting information. Maybe you or he do not feel you both are communicating in your relationship as well as you want and that is important in a work position as well, to communicate well with coworkers and boss. You will have much better ideas of whether this could really mean anything or just be something strange and different for a dream that has no other meaning.
]
Hiya! Dr.D here!
Dreams are often the brain sending us hidden messages about how we feel and problems in everyday life that our brain thinks we should fix. Now if your boyfriend is crying while looking at your phone. I'm guessing that your brain is saying your hiding something in your phone that could potentially hurt your boyfriend. This could be a secret, or anything that would make your boyfriend upset.
Thats what I think it is, guessing from the information given. But if your hiding a secret, your brain wants you to confess and tell the truth to end this.
Good luck!
-Dr.D
]
More Questions: |