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mythejane99


Question Posted Saturday January 28 2017, 5:15 pm

Hi :) we have one big break during school day , it's 20 minutes..and me and other two girl i hang out in school most, they're Caroline and Diana...but the two of them are better friends than they're with me , i just joined them...and we meet during this big break and we sit in canteen(like everyone does) and we talk and when we have lesson the whole class together , they always sit together, i sit with one of them if one of them is not in at school...but today during big break.they were talking and Caroline and Diana were deciding where they will hang out together and to didnt even ask me if i wanted to go with them..they're always tagging each other in facebook posts , they always take selfies but they dont invite me to join them.. its like they'werent my friends. when i have lessons with Diana , we sit together, i always talk with her, ask her some questions, but when im quiet, she deosnt talk to me, like i mentioned before i have tiwn brother , and.we have some lessons together, and when my twin brother is around , Diana will always talk to him, joke with him ...the girls in the class likes my twin brother better than me 😟, i dont want to go.to.school where no one likes me for.unknown reason, and bc of HIM ...i should never have told him about my feelings for him...and todau's my birthday and Diana wished me happy birthday on snapchat, but also some.friends which suprised me, but I wanted HIM to write something to me but he didnt :/ why ?? he didnt forget it's my birthday bc he did wish happy birthday to my twin brother, even though he rejected me i did wish him happy birthday, i really shouldnt have told him how i feel about him, it was HUGE mistake, im so mad at him bc he said we would still remain friends after he rejected me , but he's behaved so badly to me :((, why would he behave to me like that ?

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rainhorse68 answered Sunday January 29 2017, 5:57 am:
Hi! It is difficlt enough to correctly guess why somebody does something. Guessing why the do NOT do something is often almost impossible. I should say if anybody wrote a list of people they know who did not wish them a happy birthday it would hevaily outnumber the list of those who did. Now, I do not think you are doing as badly as YOU think you are, as I have no doubt said. I think the fundamental key to you building a much stronger self-image is taking rather more control of your life than you are right now. You are constantly giving this guy the power to make or break your day by something he says or doesn't say, does or doesn't do. This is a significant power to hand to someone. You have to be very particular about who you give it to. This guy does not deserve it. Step one is to take that power away from him. The only reason his has it at all is by YOUR CONSENT. So stop giving it to him!! It sounds like you like Caroline and Diana? They seem to be around, on the outskirts of your life. Some days closer than others? That describes a lot of our friendships. Some suddenly become much closer, for some reason. Some friends become more distant. It just happens. Or doesn't happen. These 'connections' are not something we can arrange or set-up. You're doing OK. For goodness sake don't let this guy have such a strong influence on YOUR LIFE!

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