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My crush knows that I like him
My crush found out that I like him. Wd are friends and stuff. He's being super sweet about it. He's acting extremely chill and stuff. Like normal. But it's clear that he doesn't feel the same towards me. Even though he never said so. But I feel this guilt pit right in my core and it keeps dragging me down. How do I make myself feel better?
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Guilt is undoubtedly the most negative and unproductive emotion and especially so when it's misplaced. Like here. There's absolutely nothing to feel guilty, awkward or ashamed about here. You can feel a bit down, because he doesn't feel the way you feel. That'll pass. A few good chats and parties out with your mates, and probably a cool new potential-boyfriend or two in your sights and you'll wonder what you saw in him anyway. Not every penny fits the slot, and that's a fact. The best way to feel better is to be better. The best way to get over someone is to live well without them. That's the best revenge too, by the way. If you're feeling a bit vindictive! Go on and live large, laugh loud, love again and party. Life's just too short for wasting time on regrets and looking back. And what have you got to regret exactly? You rolled the dice, told him how you feel. OK, it didn't quite go to plan this time. But you did all you could. Tomorrow's a new day. New dice. New game.
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If he is all cool about it then you shouldn't stress upon it dear!! I know it's quite awkward to face him after all this. But you should talk to him and make him understand that if he don't like you then it's okay . You should tell him that you respect his feeling. You should clear it up with hil and don't hurry up it will take time and patience. You will be down because of rejection but just believe me it's not the right guy or maybe right time ,if he is you both will eventually meet each other with the grace of destiny. you should stay strong and move on .
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