my best friend is dating my ex boyfriend who is my crush
Question Posted Sunday October 9 2016, 6:07 pm
16/f grade 10 im from south africa
So i dated this guy and i still liked him and then be told me he still likes me. Then the next day he wouldnt speak to me and this went on for 2 weeks of him ignoring me. Then the one day at school i found out from a friend that he likes my best friend and then my best friend told me she doesnt like him back. I gave her a lot of chances to tell me if she does like him and said if something happens between them she must promise to tell me. A week after this they started dating but she didnt tell me. She told me a few days after because she found out that i saw messages between them. She is sleeping at his house right now.
She knew that i like him and promised hes like a brother to her. I dont know what to do because i go back to school in two days and im scared to see them together and im just really hurt
Additional info, added Tuesday October 11 2016, 12:20 pm: Oh and its difficult because im in a very small school with 15 people in my grade so there arent many people to choose from if we stop being friends. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? AdviceMistress answered Tuesday October 11 2016, 11:58 am: It sounds like your friend isn't really your friend at all. I don't blame you for being upset. As hard as it is I would forget your friend and your ex. Meet new people and find a different crowd to hang out with. Your "friend" is obviously not someone that you can trust if she is going behind your back and not letting you know what's going on. Not only that but dating a friend's ex is not right. Don't let this get you down. Good luck! [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
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