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I'm having a hard time learning how to drive
Hey! I had my second drive toda with an instructor. I have a hard time turning. He says that I turn to slow and then I turn too fast. And that I should be turning with my right over my left? I started off good and then it got bad.
We've driven around a car park, using indicators, learning to change into 1st and 2nd gears, and practicing u-turns. I almost got into an accident and almost hit the curb a couple of times. My instructor says I'm too stiff on the wheel and he was getting frustrated. I get a little nervous when there's a lot of cars around. I also have to look over my shoulder and in the mirrors while making a lane change.
how can I overcome this? Any tips?
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Yes I have two suggestions.
1. Try relaxing a bit and take control of the car. It sounds to me that you are a bit fearful of the car and letting it control you. I know this sounds a bit silly but you need to remember the car only goes where you point it and as fast or slow as you press on the accelerator. You should start driving at a speed you are comfortable with and go faster as you get more comfortable driving.
2. I think your instructor is part of the problem. I'm guessing you have a male instructor. If I'm correct ask for a female instructor. I think as a female you may be more comfortable with a female sitting next to you. There is nothing wrong with asking for a different instructor. You are the customer and you should get what you need to obtain what you are paying for.
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I just finished my driving lessons and I can say that I wasn't very good at the beginning either. But I didn't start driving in public immediately. First, my instructor tought me the basics in a closed field with no other cars. A beginner should not start driving on the streets before learning the basics. Maybe try suggesting your instructor not to drive on the streets until you get better?
Also, please don't worry. We've all been bad at the beginning and very confused. My god, I remember my car turned off every 2nd minute. But then I figured why it's turning off, and I corrected myself and tried not to repeat my mistake. Take is easy, relax, don't be nervous. I know that if your instructor is getting nervous it reflects on you and you're afraid to disappoint them and make a big mistake. But you're allowed to make mistakes. You are in the process of learning. It's okay to make mistakes. Just don't let this bring you down and try even more. You'll get better, trust me. Everyone has. You just have to go through that uncomfortable phase of not knowing at first. Good luck and if you have any more questions, feel free to message me :)
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