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My boyfriend smokes weed! What should I do?
My boyfriend and I have been together for a while. He's basically the most perfect human being to me. He's smart, he's handsome, he's sweet, and he treats me like royalty! He says all of the right things to me and he makes me feel good. I couldn't ask for anything better. The only issue is...HE SMOKES WEED OCCSSIONALLY! I am one who has morals- I am a virgin, I don't smoke, I don't drink, I don't party, etc. I'm not trying to be judgmental, but I don't know how to handle it! It really bothers me and I don't know what to do. Any advice?
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Honestly, if it bothers you... express that to him. If it is the problem that he does it in front of you. Although, you can not ask him to stop doing it overall. His decisions are his decisions. Now, you can ask him to respect that you do not like him doing it near him or before you see him etc. If you would like to go into more detail so I can help you out more specifically... feel free to email me at sfwadvice@gmail.com. I have my own advice website starting up. Best of luck! sfwadvice.wordpress.com.
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Hey!
Smoking weed occasionally isn't a bad thing at all. If anything smoking weed can help you relax, and has many health benefits (if you use it responsibly). I have anxiety, so I actually find smoking weed really relaxing for me. Again I don't do it on a daily basis, I only do it occasionally.
I honestly think you should let him smoke occasionally, but make sure he's using it right. If it bothers you just tell him to not smoke it in front of you, or to try and get rid of the smell after he smokes. Now if he's on meth, cocaine, or a more addictive drug I would understand where you're coming from.
I know you really love this guy by the way you talk about him
so you shouldn't let that little thing bother you so much. Besides that doesn't define who he is as a person. He still treats you right, and he's still smart, and he still loves you.
I just want you to be a little open-minded about it, and put some thought into it.
-Swimmer133 :)
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Weed has gotten a bad rap from people who don't know what they're talking about or haven't ever smoked. Its legal in many states and countries. Its also not dangerous like alcohol. Someone stoned is usually mellow and relaxed, that's it. Some people get paranoid though. That's about it. People don't get aggressive like with alcohol or lose all inhibition and do stupid things that will hurt themselves or others.
Weed isn't bad, its just that people are brainwashed to think so. Don't hate on him because of it. He sounds like a great guy, don't lose him cause he smokes occasionally. Its not really a bad thing.
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