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Is 8 inches long and 4 inches in girth normal for a 14 yearold?
I'm 14 and my penis is 8.3 inches and 4 inches in girth. Is that normal or should I be concerned?
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If you mean normal as in whether there is something wrong with you if you are this size, no. Ones size is penis will vary as greatly as the size and shape of womens breast and nipples.
Will you grow larger yet? Hard to say. Most people aren't done growing to their adult body sixe until end of teens or so. But some people are early or late bloomers.You may not get much large.
As a female who'se had enough lovers to be able to give my impression on sizes, I only heard of one woman who said her husband was only 2 inches long approx. The longest I've ever seen myself was a guy who was 8 inches long. All the men were a mix of averages from 5 to 7 inches. All the girths were around 4 inches. Only once did I see a guy who was extremely skinny girth wise and one with normal girth but a huge head on end of penis.
The guy who was 8 inches was painful even when gentle because even aroused, the maximum I was able to take was up to, not over 7 inches. This long guy's package didn't shrink up against his body like most do but when not erect the penis hung and swayed at its 8 inch length. Remember this is not the average. When I began asking other women, I never heard of anothers mate who was long when flaccid, real short or real long or different in some way.
As adviceman said, this means you will have to be a gently lover. When you try to the first time, the girl likely will be able to fit circumferance wise but it takes a period of time over many sessions for her vagina to stretch out to fit the 4 inch around. Remember, babies come out of that same passage way and if a baby can make it, then with time, a vagina can fit a penis in girth.
Length is a little trickier.
If you are okay with not being able to fit all of you in, then it shouldn't be a problem. Its if you want to pump fast for a while at which its harder to consistently not go in too far and hurt her that there may be issues.
I will describe the mechanics here of the women's body for you as you will need to know this some day and I doubt anyone else will tell you even if they knew. You already have been told the size of the resting vagina/before sex. So here's how it becomes longer: When the female is aroused from her man working on her, even better getting her an orgasm already by clitoral or g spot with your finders or a toy, two things happen.
1. the vagina releases a thick lubricating liquid, as you release precum, which is meant to make it easier friction wise for the pernis to slip in.
2. The vagina lengthens because in aroused state, the womb moves upward inside of her pulling the vagina along, lengthening it.
If in lengthened state she can only fit anything less than 8, or even 7, and we're not t alking just teens, any age.... then you may become limited to only one position that works without pain.
The pain can happen in two ways. The cervix at the end of vagina and the entrance to the womb is soft cartilege type material that feels like the end of your nose. Imagine someone jackhammering at the end of your nose non stop for a couple of minutes of longer. Eventually you're going to have a very sore nose and its will hurt in the process. Thats what happens to the female. If when the 8 inch lover went slow, once the tip of his penis hit my cervix, it kind of glanced off it and landed in a pocket of skin to either side of the vagina and that is where the excruciating pain came in. What happened here is that even slowly trying to press in to the hilt, the penis tip was pressing against a bunch of nerve endings to each side of the cervix and that sent instant charley horse cramps down one or both legs. So before you have sex with any female, they need to know your size, and they may not know what they can fit yet, I would make sure to have lube on hand as couples of any age, no matter how aroused can find their skin absorbed most the lube over time and they need to reapply and if the female gets really wet or is one who gushes/the female version of ejaculation, a thinner liquid than the earlier lubricating one, she may actually rinse away all the lube in this action and need reapplying. You will want to establish a safe word, something she can say that isnt the normal words she says while climaxing. I knew a gal who told me she says No no no when orgasming so with a new lover, forgetting to tell him, he thought she wanted him to stop. So whether one says 'stop', yells 'pain!' or makes up a silly word, as long as you both know it ahead and she uses it, you can stop in a split second and the woman is more likely to be willing to have sex with you knowing you're long if she knows she'll be safe and you will stop if she feels pain.
On the flip side, there are women , the few who happen to have the oddley longer than average vagina and actually look for, even advertise saying they are looking for a boyfriend, lover who is 8 inches or longer.
Mechanics wise again, a main even short, can reach a womans g spot which is at the max 2 inches in on the upper/belly button side of vagina, a rougher/prune like patch of skin.
The only thing a shorter man could not reach easily or at all depending, is a females A spot which is again the upper side of vagina at the end right in front of cervix. Thats all I can think of to advise you on but if I missed something else you have a question on just for furture reference, let me know.
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According to the latest Ansel Research Survey; the average male penis when erect is between 5.1 & 5.9 inches long.
Keep in mind that this is the average, the middle between the largest and the smallest, above the micro-penis (below 2 inches in length). The survey states that size varies based on age, time of day, level of excitement and ambient temperature.
Average Vagina Size
Relaxed
Length 3 1/2 to 4 inches
Diameter 1 Inch
Aroused
Length ("tented) 5 to 6 inches
Diameter 1 1/2 to 2 inches
As you can see by the size chart of the average female vagina; any penis over 6 inches in length and 2 inches in girth is larger than the average vagina can easily accommodate. A larger penis will cause a woman with an average sized vagina pain during intercourse, especially if the male is not a thoughtful and considerate lover.
Should you be concerned? I'm not sure concerned is what you should be. Considerate when attempting intercourse would be more correct. Be prepared for rejection be teenage girls as someone with you penis size is going to scare them if you do not prepare them for what they are going to see.
Women may talk about wanting a man with a big penis but yours is above average and it is going to scare them especially if they are virgins or not that experienced with sex.
You have what you have there is nothing you can do about that and you will have a great sex life once you get past your teenage years. Until you meet someone you can make a life with you will always have to make her aware of your size before you get in bed so she can be prepared. Be considerate and take your time entering her. Make sure to have lubricant with you as you will need it. If you are a considerate lover you need not be concerned about your size.
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