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Is it okay ?
hi so i have a boyfriend that i have been dating for about 3 months and soon to be 4. We have never had any physical contact besides holding hands and hugging. Well next week were going on a date and i really want to kiss him/make out. I know most of the time when people kiss they start to make out.... But i don't know if it will be the same with me and him because he is kind of socially awkward and does not have a lot of friends.I feel like if i lean in for a kiss he will react in a weird way or may not kiss back.We talk about our relationship sometimes and once over facetime he told me he wanted a hand job...That was a few weeks ago and i don't know if i am ready for all that but i do want to see him get hard and i wanna know how to do that, like how to touch him with out getting to sexual
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You didnt mention an age so if you're under 18, and just starting to experiment with sexuality, I will mention some caution.
If the first kiss leads to another and another and soon you're both carried away wanting to take off clothes and go further, the best thing is to have condoms with you, not just one, several in case you have a problem with the first one, one breaks or has something wrong with it as you take it out of wrapper or you want to go a second round.
You may not even be ready for all that as far as you know but having about 3 condoms on you or in your purse is a very good idea..just in case.
Now if we are talking about a teen boy, they get hard very easily and very often and don't need any prompting from you to do so. Just them imagining sex with no girl in sight, is enough to make a guy instantly hard. So if this is what you want to see, I can imagine that telling him you want to see what he looks like when hard might be enough to make him hard. Athough if you were to say this, you better clarify whether you just want to see a bulge thru his clothes, he remains fully clothed or whether you are talking about him being totally nude for you. I know you may not do any of this the first time. There is no rush but this is all worth knowing ahead of time.
As for the kiss, if he's already a boyfriend and has hung around this long and still has interest in you, plus has once mentioned wanting a hand job, then this guy will accept a kiss and kiss back no problem. Its when you think someone is interested sexually but their interest was purely on a friend level that there may be a problem. The person may accept the kiss but not kiss back and then be in the awkward situation of having to tell you that they aren't interested in you that way. If a guy asked you out or starts dating you, its almost a guarantee that at some point soon he will want to kiss while he dreams of more.
So just lean over slowly, getting closer to his lips, giving him a chance to pull away. If he doesnt, deliver a kiss on the lips, maybe another and the rest will come naturally as he responds back. I wouldn't wait for the guy to kiss first if he is the shy type, so just go for it.
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Hi there! This question really intrigued me. I am a friend of the person who owns this account.
Anyways... I just got a boyfriend a week ago. Before we started dating we already started saying "I love you." and kissing. We both made the move to kiss by hugging then he backed away and I kind of grabbed his waiste and pulled him closer. not hard though. Then he looked at meh lips and I leaned in.
So... maybe try that. and to touch but no TO sexual grab his waiste and pull it really close to u and hard to. That got my boyfriend hard REALLY fast.
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