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Question Posted Monday June 20 2016, 9:47 am

I asked a previous question that you answered(this is like 3 weeks ago), but I would like to sort of clarify a bit, because I think you maybe misunderstood my original situation.

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I probably should have explained it better, but the way our prom works is that we buy tickets in advance, and when we buy tickets, we also choose tables, and after buying the ticket we can't switch tables.

So my friends and I (5 of us) all bought tickets together and at the same table (tables seat 10). We were really hoping some nice people would sit with us, but we don't really talk to a lot of other people much. So this annoying girl who is really clingy and attention-seeking buys a ticket at our table, and after that nobody else joins our table. Now it's just going to be me and my friends and this girl, and we have like a 3-5 course meal to sit through at the table with her...no choice about it.

How can I make the situation less awkward? How can I get less bothered? Is there any way to prevent her from hanging out with us for the rest of the night(dancing etc)? Because if she hangs out with us for that long I know I will eventually get frustrated enough that I will want to scream at her...I wouldn't, but I would probably say something not very nice, and I want to be nice, I just can't stand being around this girl for extended periods of time...

Also, if she finds out what me and my friends are doing afterwards, she is going to want to join us, or whine about why she wasn't invited...


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Dragonflymagic answered Monday June 20 2016, 8:21 pm:
Sorry but if she has a ticket for the same table, you are stuck with her for the time you are at the prom. I'll just bet she wouldn't have time to pester and focus on you if some guy at the prom focused on her.
The deal would be, how do you convince some guy to keep her busy hanging with him and dancing with him? I have no idea. Maybe you know of a guy who'd be willing to do that.
As for afterwards, you didnt say what the plans are but I would refrain from saying anything or either of you leaving the prom together. Whatever it is, reservations somewhere, how you're all getting to the after event, you might need to coordinate splitting up, getting seperate rides and then you all show up at the same place minus her.

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