Dragonflymagic answered Saturday February 27 2016, 11:54 pm: When contacting others, by texting, writing, calling or even in person, its cool and no problem to contact if its just to make a friend.
However, if its for romantic interest, be forewarned that just as in girl/boy relationships, just because one feels an attraction, that doesn't guarantee the other will feel the same.
then, its also harder for gays because the person they are interested in may not be gay or bisexual.
So first, if you've heard from his own lips talk that he is gay, then go for it. If not and you still want to see if anything might develop later, at least try to befriend him for now and see how the friendship goes and later in the friendship you could let him know that you are interested in him that way.
I come from a generation that didn't have texting growing up. From all the problems i hear from young people, texting is one of the worst ways possible to have any contact or conversation with someone. 75% or more of communication is non verbal or written words. Tone of voice, facial expressions and body language convey more than you would think. So if this guy is gay and you want to see if he feels the same about you, look up you tube videos on body language to know what people subconsciously do with their bodies, lots on positioning themselves too, when romantically or sexually interested in the other person... and then have a chat in person, cus no matter what he might answer, his body language will tell the truth. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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