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My friend/roommate is mad at me?
Yesterday instead of going to my friend's induction to honor society at college, I stayed at the library studying for an anatomy and physiology test that I have. She knows that I have to get a good grade in this class, and that I am not a good test taker.n I can understand why she would be upset, but she is ignoring me and pissed at me. What am I supposed to do? I apologized for missing her induction, but she didn't say anything to me.
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She might know you have to get a good grade in class, but her mind was on her special day and as her friend, she was expecting in her mind for you to be there.
If you had been ill with the flu, she would have understood. So its not that you had to miss it, my guess is that its because you didn't tell her ahead of time that you needed to study, you just didn't show up. At least that is what i assume since you made no mention of breaking this bad news to her. As friends, she was expecting more consideration, not rudeness with not telling but like you said, you had good reason not to go. Just give her space, and eventually she should calm down and then you can talk. About all you can do is apologize for not telling her of your plan ahead of time that day.
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Hello!! :)
I am wholeheartedly sorry you're going through this angry situation from your friend!
If I were you, I would just give her her space. It might be much-needed for her to cool off! I would say continue sending her a quick, genuine smile to let her know that you still like her through you giving her her space to burn off the steam.
Eventually when she cools off, settle her down and thoroughly explain to her how important your test was. I'm sure she'll understand after a cool off and a genuine explanation!! :)
Wishing you the best of luck on your situation with your friend!!! :D
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