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Ash Velvin; 19, meditator, born && raised in Virginia; sweet, enthusiastic, optimistic. :'D

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I step out of class for a brief moment, im very focussed on where i was headed too, i was causally listening to music going up the stairs. When i hear a "sphhhh". I look down the stairs and see a boy looking at me at first he had a blank expression and he winked at me. I was flattered and suprissed that someone was calling me just so they could wink. I look down smile and continue to go up the stairs but i stop and look back for one final look and hes grinning and i smile back once again, we didnt breal eye contact at all. It was like the cutest thing, ive never met him but have seen him around my school. Im sort of hoping to see him again, and will he recognize me or even care. I dont know..

Hey there!! :D

This is super cute! Maybe if you're too scared to speak to him, you could smile and wave at him the next few times you see him? :)

If he's confident enough to know you're really interested, he might even speak to you first. Who knows? ;)

Good luck!

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Yesterday instead of going to my friend's induction to honor society at college, I stayed at the library studying for an anatomy and physiology test that I have. She knows that I have to get a good grade in this class, and that I am not a good test taker.n I can understand why she would be upset, but she is ignoring me and pissed at me. What am I supposed to do? I apologized for missing her induction, but she didn't say anything to me.

Hello!! :)

I am wholeheartedly sorry you're going through this angry situation from your friend!

If I were you, I would just give her her space. It might be much-needed for her to cool off! I would say continue sending her a quick, genuine smile to let her know that you still like her through you giving her her space to burn off the steam.

Eventually when she cools off, settle her down and thoroughly explain to her how important your test was. I'm sure she'll understand after a cool off and a genuine explanation!! :)

Wishing you the best of luck on your situation with your friend!!! :D

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I ama girl from Bangladesh. I am 17 yrs old n my bf is 25. We love each other like everything. I was in an abusive relationship the for 1.5 yrs n he helped me get out of it. Now we r together for the last 5 months. We know each other for about 2 yrs now. My present bf is jst perfect. N i love him. He treats me like a princess and plays wid me like a doll. He has a stable job n is too handsome. Bt d prob strts whnevr i get angry wid him he hurts himself. He doesnt tell me anything. Whenever i am angry he says sorry even its my fault. Bt it hurts me if he hurts himself 4 me. How can i tell him not to hurt himself?

Hello!! :)

I had gone through a similar situation in one of my previous relationships. Except mine was an emotionally abusive relationship. I would become angry at some of the things he'd do and he'd unfortunately take it out on himself, showing me his self-injuries to make me feel like the bad guy. I didn't do the right thing, because I was just about as mentally ill as he was. I didn't know what to do, so I self-injured myself. (The way our relationship ended is a whole big story that is totally irrelevant.)

If I was as emotionally stable and overcame my mental illness like currently, I would've treated the situation with more compassionate care. If I were you, I would sit him down, take his hand and carefully bring him into a sweet, sympathetic and genuinely loving conversation.

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