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Help please I dont know what to do. I'm being blackmailed. I am a 19yr old male and she said she was 20yrs. I sent a nude picture of myself with my face in it to a girl on Kik and she said if I don't pay her money she would post it on Ellen show website and try to have her show it on CNN or something like. And ruin my life. She wants me to pay her $100 and if I do she said she would delete the picture. Im scared that she will post it and ruin my life. I can't tell my family because they would be upset at me and cause more issues. Please someone help me I don't know what to do. (link)
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It is illegal for her too do that, ring the police and tell them about it, they won't tell your family as you're over 18. Just make sure you make it very clear you don't want anyone too know about it, and for future reference, don't send a naughty picture too anyone unless your face is covered! And make sure you know they aren't a bitch.
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Tips to have sex with my sister (link)
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The is disgusting, you need help man! Go have a wank or something do not put your penis anywhere near your sister!
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I fucked my girlfriend from back side is there any chance to pregnant (link)
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If you mean anal no hahaha
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Hi guys. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 23. We've been dating for about five months now and we had sex for the first time a week from yesterday. I wouldn't say I have anxiety but when I do something that could bring about major consequences, I tend to overthink a lot until I go moderately insane. I'm not on the pill, long story short-my mom is crazy and wants to know when I want to go on it and told me numerous times that the guy I have sex with, she hopes I choose to marry one day and blah blah blah so I just chose thus far to not to talk to her about me contemplating going on it yet even though I know I should soon. He definitely used a condom, though, but yet I still have that anxious feeling. The kind he has was thin and I even went to the crazy extreme (don't judge me) of looking at the condom afterwards to make sure it didn't break or anything and there wasn't a tear or a hole and even if there was, I heard that condoms have spermicide on the outside so if some does seep out it doesn't get too far. My period is scheduled to be in four days and I'm trying to not psyche myself out too much so the stress doesn't push it back.
I guess I just need some reassurance that even though I wasn't on the pill and the condom stayed intact that everything is going to be fine and that I'm not going to be pregnant. I talked to my boyfriend about my anxiousness and he told me that it is very unlikely for that to happen when it went the way it did with the condom still being okay and staying on the entire time, etc. I know I sound crazy, being 21 and still being nervous about these kinds of things but I just need outside sources to help me out and calm my nerves.
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I've never been on the pill, condoms have always been fine for me and my boyfriend. Trust me you're stressing out over nothing. When i lost my virginity, my period did get pushed back a few weeks but don't worry i wasn't pregnant, because we used a condom!! Your period maybe a little late due too change in the body.
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For 2 years, I have always had 2 best friends by my side. This last August, one of my friends tried to commit suicide. Me and my other friend were really worried and were wondering if we should tell someone. This school year, we had a suicide and depression screening. My friend who tried to commit suicide earlier, answered her screening test truthfully. Now she is getting help with her counselors and a psychologist. Recently, she has had trouble with her family, and me and my other friend were getting worried again. We decided to tell our counselor. When she found out we went behind her back and told the counselor, she got mad and said she could handle it on her own. Now she is currently not speaking to us. Our counselor pulled me out of class and told me that we did the right thing, and that she was grateful that we did it, but I'm still confused, because she still won't talk to either of us. Please help. (link)
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You did the right thing, you was just being a good friend. Just understand she is in a very hard position right now, and she is going too need her friends but she is also going too need her time too herself. Never be too distant though, give her a week or so too calm down if she still hasn't spoke too you, just try and speak too her and try too explain you was just worried about her, and you thought it was the right thing too do. She will understand, don't feel bad for what you did. That was the mature thing too do. Imagine how you would've felt if you didn't say anything and she ended up harming herself? A lot worse than you do now believe me! By telling it means you care. Good luck.
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Hi Im Jay and Im 15 and my boyfriend who's 17 is forcing me to send him nudes. I told him about 5 times that im not comfortable with putting myself out there like that but he says he doesn't care and that i should do it for him and if i don't I'll regret it big time. I hate how he gets mad at me if I don't do something he wants, and I'm scared of not doing it cuz he'll get mad and hurt me. I just really don't want to send him nudes and idk what to do he won't take no for an answer. I need advice please help. (link)
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Hi Jay, if I was in your position I would say goodbye straight away! If he can't respect that you don't want too do that, he obviously doesn't care about you and he isn't worth your time. It maybe hard and scary too break up with him, but trust me it's the best thing too do! You're putting yourself in a very vulnerable situation, take it from someone who has been in an abusive relationship in the past. It's not a good thing too be involved in at all, get out while you can! The earlier you can get out of the relationship the better, because if you let it go on any further it'll just be harder too leave him. Don't ever let a guy push you around, you're worth more than that!
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My boyfriend and I started dating back in June so we've been together for almost five months now. We've talked about sex before and he said he's ready but he's perfectly fine waiting for me. I'm 21 and he's 22, by the way. Our six month anniversary would be on December 11th, his 23rd birthday is the day before Christmas Eve and then Christmas will be here. Then, he is going on a twenty day road trip all around the west coast with his best friend during the month of January to go visit a friend that goes to college out in Oregon.
So, with everything exciting coming up in December, I want for us to finally have sex as it would be a special time with his birthday and our six months together and one of my favorite holidays. The only thing is that I'm not yet on the pill. I feel like I have a valid enough reason to want to go on it after being with my boyfriend for almost six moths, I think it's about time. It's just that my parents are really rather protective, I guess-my dad, obviously, more than my mom. They're getting better with him and our relationship, though, he is allowed to spend the night at my house as long as I ask them and I'm allowed to spend the night at his place as long as I tell them that's where I'm going and when I'll be home, which I can live with.
I just think discussing my sex life is going to be a really awkward situation and I think my mom will just make it way worse. I plan to tell just her but I know she's going to tell my dad and she already warned me that my dad isn't going to be happy about it but I don't think he'd be happy about a baby either so he should really pick his battles. My mom is just a little overbearing in that she tells me all the time that she needs to know when I want to go on it and that she hopes the man I decide to have sex with is the man I choose to marry and I just know she's going to want to talk to my boyfriend about it too.
I've discussed this with my brother's girlfriend and she said to just go and talk to my doctor and do it all myself but my mom has a very uncanny knack of finding everything out and that situation makes me also nervous in that her and I go to the same doctor and I know the doctor wouldn't just tell my mom but she is on all of my paperwork as the person to tell when something happens. Then my brother's girlfriend told me to not even get on the pill, just have him wear a condom and pull out but I don't think I'd really always trust that either.
My mom is great and I know she has my best interests at heart but this is my first serious boyfriend and I know it's hard for her and my dad to adjust. She tells me constantly, though, that when I'm ready, all I have to do is tell her I want to go on it but I know she won't make it that easy. I think she knows the conversation is coming soon because the other day I told her that I went to American Eagle with my boyfriend to pick up some jeans and they were having a deal that with every pair of jeans, you get a free panty so I was shopping for my free underwear and he was being so awkward about it so I was telling my mom that he asked if he should leave while I looked at those and my mom said "come on, are you meaning to tell me that he hasn't seen your underwear before?"
Anyway, I guess I just need advice on how to handle this. What to say to my mom. How to make the situation as normal and not awkward as possible. If you went through it with your mom and want to share how that went, I'd totally appreciate that too. I know she can't really tell me no, I'm 21 and my sex life is my decision, which is why I'm not sure she wants to know so bad anyway but I respect her enough to go behind her back when I know she is just trying to help.
I love my boyfriend, I really do, and I know he loves me too and I'm so ready to take this next step with him, I just want to be safe about it all first. (link)
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It's illegal for a doctor too tell your mum that you have gone on the pill, as you are an adult and you can make your own decisions. Honestly don't be so worried, you really don't have too tell your mum. It's not hiding anything from her, but I honestly don't think anyone wants too tell their mum they're having sex. If it ever comes up and she asks you if you're having sex, then you don't have too lie, but even if you say no it's not being disrespectful towards your mum, because I definitely wouldn't be able too tell my mum i was having sex. Unless you want too, if you feel comfortable telling her then go ahead. Plus, I've made my boyfriend use condoms for a year now and we've never had any problems. I respect that you're being more careful though, good on you girl. Good luck!
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