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As complicated as my love life has been, this situation covers the most difficult thing I've had to face. My boyfriend and I have had a rough relationship for two years though we never gave up on each other. Our relationship had its share of drama and sometimes I felt he wasn't boyfriend material anymore. Over time as our relationship grew, our families and extended families as well as our community started to learn of our relationship and they were very happy. I'm 23, doing my master's while he's 26, and doesn't have much. Hes very determined to use his musical talents to make him great. Hes very well respected in the community and he does get paid for his gigs. He gets to travel from time to time to do what he does and they do pay him well. He also has a school where he teaches. U fortunately none of his income is constant and my family is worried that he's not doing anything to build a proper stable and strong foundation financially. He swears to me and everyone that he is but I can't help but hear my parents and almost everyone say that he needs to do more. My family is worried that he will only bring me down financially. There are many people I know who does what he does, and they say that he needs to do more. He feels, however, he is better and is more worth it.(which in a way is true, but still). Now, we cannot be together because of my family's wishes and I am having a hard time letting go. I told him I will wait for him to do what he has to do to gain that success while I continue to do what I'm doing. Maybe down the line, I can see if what he's doing is worthwhile. Only problem is, we still act like a couple when we're alone and I know it's going to get even more difficult when I can't go out in public with him anymore. I can't help but feel this might be a stupid decision. (link)
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This is where things are going to get intense and I apologize if anyone is taking offense to this, not completely but yeah. Honestly if this man makes you truly happy, feel good about yourself, feel loved, etc, then his financial well-being shouldn't have an impact, money is powerful in everything except love. He is probably just trying to find his place in this world right now and you (if the above was the case) should be there to support and help him find this. Grow together, become one. there's going to be times where both of you will pull eachother down at one point or another,wether its now or later. you are NOT your parents, their expectations iin this world should not have an impact on how you decide to love your man and wether or not you will be with him. It sounds like the heart doesn't want you too to be apart, be together, but don't let others influence it, its not heir business, nor their problem.
IF YOU REALLY JUST WANT TO BE WITHOUT HIM STILL:
have fun, I've already explained the connection, but if you wabt to ignore it it will be difficult. if this is your decision message me and i'll get more details and help you with how to do so.
-An Overgrown Weed & Sincerely X
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what are good dares? (link)
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It all has to do with how old you are
who you're playing with
what are the boundaries
gender
surroundings
etc.
maybe add some more detail to the situation.
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