Surprise! How do I ask him to be my valentine, including the baby?
Question Posted Tuesday February 9 2016, 5:10 pm
I'm pregnant with my first child and since Valentine's Day is coming up I want to surprise my boyfriend and ask him to be my Valentine because he's been such a good daddy to be. I want to do it in a way that includes our little boy but not sure how to! I'm 16..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Dragonflymagic answered Thursday February 11 2016, 10:10 pm: I am confused by your question. You want to surprise him and to me, that means, either you both aren't officially a couple yet and you are asking him or along with giving him a valentine, you want to have a creative way to announce to him he's about to be a father.
Then again you did say he's been such a good daddy to be, so not sure if he's already in the know or not. At 16, some states with parents permission will allow teens to marry but you didn't use that word. So I suppose I need to know what you meant by asking him to 'be your Valentine'. To me, a Valentine as in a person, is someone you already have a love relationship with, have a crush on and want a relationship with. I could ask my husband to be my Valentine but its for me meaningless as he already is. From the sounds of it, I am guessing the daddy to be is already your Valentine. If nothing official has been said or worked out yet, I dont know that as you didn't say. Please clarify what it is that you are to be asking him so I have a clue how to answer [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
missundersmock answered Tuesday February 9 2016, 6:53 pm: you could compile a few photos of you two together (or have some photos taken of you guys showing your belly, and then buy one of those picture frames that has a bunch of smaller spaces for photos and then put the pictures in there with a valentines day card in the middle for him to hang on his wall??
You could try to order a box of live butterflies or a kit to grow them then on valentines day you could take him to a park and watch him open them, and put a photo pf you guys at the bottom of the box?? or a note or small card....(you can decide that)
go to either wallmart or an arts n crafts store and just wander around for a while for things that could give you inspiration. Look on pinterest for things to make too.
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