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Hi, how do you know if the flirty guy friend likes you? He is flirty with everyone and I can't guess if it's a tease or joke or flirt. Thanks
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When a person is flirty with everyone, that is part of who they are, their unique personality. Unfortunately, that rules out flirting as a sign for you to be able to tell if there is interest in you beyond friendship level. He will likely be showing it in other ways. If he is self confident enough and outgoing to be this way with many, then he will have no trouble letting his true feelings be known. All you need is to be discussing topics close to dating that will get him talking and ask him questions 'as a friend'.
And learn to steer a conversation to what you want to learn. For example, you could ask questions to get him describing what he would consider the perfect girlfriend to be and if needed, you reciprocate with what you are looking for. Here's the twist tho, the important pieces you can't leave out. When he's describing what his perfect girlfriend is, if it sounds totally unlike you, don't even go there. If parts of it or all sound like you, then Do say so. "Gee, the perfect girlfriend you described almost sounds like my personality!" And when you are describing the perfect boyfriend, you don't have to go into much detail and just start, interrupt yourself as if it just occurred to you, "...actually,come to think of it, my perfect boyfriend would be someone alot like you. I wonder, if perhaps, we should both give it a try, go beyond friendship to see if we could become more than friends? What do you think?"
With that opening, you've left the conversation ready for him to have opportunity to confess he has feelings for you if there are any, without fear now of losing your friendship.
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