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should i or should i not say something
i frequent my bank, and there is a new teller there and ive notice she is always eager to help me and if I don't go to her window she gets upset and wont speak to me, or if I don't speak to her she gets upset....today I called the bank and boy was she extra happy...I can feel her just smiling in the background....wth...should I ask her what's up or just leave it alone? my bro thinks she is prolly bi and has a crush on me and told me to give her my number....she is younger than me I do know that much.....and she comes off as freaky.....what do u all think is she just being friendly or does she like me like? thanks
SO should I give her my number or wait to see if she's gonna ask me for mine....im not an outdoorsy person but I wouldn't mind chillin with her
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
In my younger days I worked as a teller for a Major New York Bank. One of the ones with a main Office in NYC built with all the Granit you could think of. They opened a branch on Long Island and I was asked to go to the branch to help with the opening.
While I was there a very nice looking girls would come into the bank and come to my window. If I was off that day or out to lunch my coworkers said she would leave after asking where I was.
Nothing could come of her interest in me as she was a depositor and the bank had rules against this. In fact we could not have an account in the bank for fear we might play some game against the bank. Our banking needs were met with an associate bank prearranged by our bank. I'm sure her bank has similar rules.
I suggest you do not encourage her in anyway and let her make any move on you if she wishes to.
PS. I was told by friends of mine at the Bank that after I left for another position she closed her account.
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I think you need to leave this alone.
This is her job. If you are there frequently, it's perfect appropriate for her to give you special attention—as a customer. Her flirting crosses the line when it makes you uncomfortable and confused (and it sounds like she has crossed that line and may have behaved rudely.)
The best thing you can do is shrug this off. There is a lot bad that come of pursuing it, and not much good.
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A Banks Teller is supposedly to be a Sweet Darling, they are the face of the Bank and they are meant to greet and Welcome the Walkin Customers and make them feel comfortable.
The gestures which you have described are quiet common in many Banks these days.
Though you seem to be quite interested in the female , and if you feel she feels the same for you, please directly bowl it out , do not built castles in air and describe it to one and all and leading later embarrassment for yourself and the female too
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