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Gay boyfriend
Should I join a gay dating site to find guys?
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I am all for using a dating site to narrow down the hunt for a partner which is like hunting for a needle in a haystack...very hard to just bump into the right someone. You increase your chances by volumes of people who see you or you seeing their profile and writing to them. You also increase the numbers of people who contact you who are far from what you are looking for and there are a lot of weird people, real duds out there and of course lots of liars. If you can be careful and thorough in checking someone out, you'll do fine. I used a general dating site that had options for men seeking men or women seeking women besides the usual women and men seeking each other. SO some regular sites can still be used. But using a site for just gay or titled LGBT is a good way to go. I was on 3 dating sites. Some people who hate doing this stuff but want to find someone may only sign up on one place so you will increase your chances of meeting someone by putting a profile in the best of the sites you check out. There are even sites now strictly for people over 50 and for those with herpes. Start checking it out and have fun.
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If you are gay, and would like to meet other gay guys to date, or be friends with, that might be a good way to go about it.
Just be safe and sensible about it. Take it slow when meeting someone for the first time, and avoid dangerous situations like meeting someone in private, secret places.
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