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relationship trouble ):
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months since yesterday. He's a senior, me a sophomore. Lately, we've been fighting and arguing a lot. Last night, we were fine texting each other , but today at school was our Disney homecoming day (I dressed up, he didn't) and this morning he told me was embarrassed of me. I tried walking with him, but he was giving me attitude and I yelled at him. Now he's telling me he ripped up the note I wrote him for our 5 months and that he gave away the candy he was going to give me today at school . He sometimes brings up things I did and the past and tries binging them up (screenshots) and I try my best not to talk about them because they're in the past and I'm so frustrated and I just don't know hat to do! I hate when we fight or he gets up at me . What can I do? I love this boy very much and I don't want to consider breaking up with him.
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actually it sounds like hes broken up with YOU hunny.
If a guy rips up a love letter or something that was supposed to hold alot of meaning for you too, then gives away something he was supposed to give you, and acts like an asshole then why would you continue to put yourself through that? Hes obviously done with you, or else even at his angriest moment a person should never do and say the things hes doing. You deserve better ok, and he sounds like a immature brat.
Teen/high school relationships RARELY last very long because your all still discovering what you want in a long term partner. Some of these kids barely know THEMSELVES let alone what they want in a relationship. ITs all a sort of experimental, take things as they come so that you can learn from your mistakes time for you.
He also shouldnt be bringing up things from the past and trying to throw them up in your face either. Thats cold hearted and mean. He sounds like hes intentionally trying to be harsher on you then what is needed for whatever emotions need be applied here and thats not right.
He is ruled by his emotions. People who are ruled solely by their emotions tend to be unstable, and unreliable people at times because every little thing that other people do they feel "effects them" some how even if it didnt have anything to do with them.
I say give him some space, dont speak to him, let him cool off and then see if he comes to you. And by giving him some space and not talking for a while i dont just mean a couple days, i mean like a week or two. He needs to figure himself out and re-evaluate his relationship with you, and if hes a decent guy he will come back to you and say hes sorry and WANT to work things out. If not leave him alone, and dont try to come up with reasons to contact him either, thats a front and everyone knows it, and your then trying to force interaction with someone who may not want to talk to you right now. He needs to know what he'll be missing if your not around anymore.....
good luck
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