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Will he ever get some courage and ask me out?


Question Posted Wednesday January 13 2016, 7:05 pm

im 32 and he is 27 he is a store manager at a grocery store...from the looks of things he is doing quite well for himself. well ive had a couple of customers ask me was I his girlfriend..i said no.....and he looked up at me and then put his head down....anyway he is shorter than me im 5'3 and he is 5'0 and he is fluffy ( I normally don't date men of that stature ) but if he was to ask me out id give him a chance, he seems like a very nice guy..he picks on me constantly, he knows I like to cook so now he asks me what am I going to cook him......lmao.....even my brother was like that dude wants you.....well today I went up to him and I was like, hey and he turned around and stared at me with this shocked/stunned looked on his face and I said here and I gave him a folded piece of paper with my name and number on it and I walked away...since I did that do you think he will finally get some courage and ask me out? thanks




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Additional info, added Sunday January 17 2016, 9:31 am:
UPDATE: well no phone call, how shy can one person be, its been a week no contact, if he was gonna call, he woulda been did that.....so i've came to this conclusion, he lost my number, he isn't interested and I misread everything, he doesn't want a relationship, he is already in a relationship and wasn't man enough to tell me, he is gay or he finds me intimidating. my friend told me to confront him...well im not going to do that, and I dont have time for games either, all I know is he just missed out on a great catch...thanks for all of your help

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Razhie answered Thursday January 14 2016, 10:50 am:
If a guy doesn't contact you after you give him your number, then he probably doesn't want contact you.

Sorry, that simple. Maybe he doesn't want to because he's nervous or shy, or maybe he has other reasons, but you made your intentions pretty clear.

Unless you intend to ask him out—and I think if you want him this badly you should—then you are gonna have to let this go. If it's important to you that he is the one who does the asking, you've made yourself about as clear as you can.

Unless you get the courage together, to put aside stupid gender roles and concerns keep you from just inviting him out, then it's probably time to accept that he's not taking the bait you are putting out there.

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adviceman49 answered Thursday January 14 2016, 9:52 am:
Well at least you have let him know your interested in him. If he doesn't call you then you may have to resort to inviting him to dinner next time he asks you what you are cooking for him. If you know what his favorite meal may be. You might say Your making his favorite meal and he should be there at 7 with a bottle of wine he thinks goes best with the meal. If he is a no show or declines then I would say to just write him off.

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