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He dont want to have sex...
He don't ever want to have sex anymore unless we are drunk. He says he is always tired.
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Not knowing your ages, living situation or what other reasons he may have given you; it is impossible to give you any help or suggestions.
If you are in your teens, or twenties I will say there must be something wrong with him or he is getting it someplace else. For a guy in his twenties will screw a knot hole in a piece of wood if he is horny enough. I apologize for my directness but the truth is the truth.
If you are sure it is just he is tired then get him to a doctor for there is something else wrong with him. He could be depressed about something and should be screened for depression. He could be suffering from low Testosterone, something he can be tested for or other things.
Being drunk is not the answer to his sex problem as alcohol in that large a quantity will inhibit his ability. Most men when drunk are unable to get and or maintain an erection.
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Im going to agree with dragonfly here, you havent really told us your and his age, your current relationship situation, or what might be going on enough to give you a helpful for focused in answer.
Basically the more vague you are with your question, the more vague we will be with am answer unless you lay the whole situation out to us to that we can evaluate it all and give the best most realistic answer.
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Alcohol and sex don't mix well. For one thing, too much alcohol will inhibit a mans ability to perform, that means he can't get it up. I don't know how much different it may be for teen boys but I do know men in their 30s on up have been affected by alcohol, from what I hear from the wives, my girlfriends.
Furthermore, a person who is unable to let their inhibitions down unless they are drunk, shouldn't be intending to do whatever it is they are drinking to have enough guts to do.
Not sure I understand how him saying he is always tired fits in with drinking and sex in your story. for one thing, booze helps to relax a person even to the point of being sleepy/tired. so if the guy complains he is tired after drinking, thats why. If he stopped drinking, he wont likely be complaining of being tired.
Or he could mean he is tired of having sex with you, tired of you, really wanting out of relationship but afraid to ask so the way he pushes himself to be able to tolerate staying is to get drunk alot. If the guy is always tired even when not drinking, it could be that he has a medical condition and need to see his Dr. One possibility for example is sleep apnea where a person tends to hold their breath as they sleep which interrupts their sleeping pattern by causing them to partially wake from sleep to gasp for a breath. It is not good sleep and a person like this can get help from a Dr if tested for it. There may be other medical reasons. If he really loves you and wants to be there for you in the relationship, then he'll go see his Dr. if its not that he wants out of the relationship, doesnt enjoy sex for some reason or whatever. Could it be he is forcing himself to play the part of a hetero or gay when in fact, inside, he is the opposite and so he drinks thinking it'll help him to go through with it for longer when his whole self is screaming "i dont want this' so he becomes tired, etc. I dont know anything but what you shared and the possibilities are many. These are but a few scenerios of what may be happening.
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