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trying to get my feet slimmer


Question Posted Wednesday November 4 2015, 9:34 pm

My soon to be husband had desinger shoes made for our wedding, they are a size 5 and I usually wear a side 6.5. Please tell me a way I can exercise my feet to fit smaller size. My wedding day is July 2, 2016.

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Dragonflymagic answered Sunday November 8 2015, 4:51 pm:
Your husband to be, should have asked your shoe size before spending the kind of money that having specially designed shoes takes. If he has that kind of money and wants you wearing that style shoe, then he will have to fork it out again. You need to tell him that size 5 is way too small. If you feel strange pointing this out to him or talking about you getting entirely a different pair of shoes, or you feel he may be angry, and thats why you want to find a way to fit into a size 5 (which is impossible) then I suggest you think long and hard about if this is really the right man to marry or whether you are even near ready to be married, let alone a relationship because it takes lots of thorough and good communication between two people to make any kind of relationship work, including marriage. If you can't bear telling him he ordered the wrong size, then you're in for troubles in post wedding life.

As stated, feet cant gain weight. Your basic bone structure and length/size of toes, and size of heel dictate what shoe will fit you. Depending on the style of the footwear, I wear anywhere from 6 to 6 1/2 or 7. I have a narrow heel and wide foot and that has never changed in my life no matter what weight I gain or lose. You may have seen women with bloated ankles from water retention and perhaps a little of the water retention making the top of the foot appear a bit puffy which happened after my hubby broke a leg, his foot didn't appear larger but the little bit of puffy ankle and on top went away once he healed. So in reality, if you have a problem with water retention/bloating that affects your feet, you could see your doctor and perhaps try water pills for bloating but that won't change your shoe size.

Since there's no way to know if even a 6.5 shoe will fit because of the style, its best he take you along to the designer and have the designer measure your foot and take into account heel and toe size and width of your foot before making another pair or you may find the 2nd one doesnt fit either. There are a few things in life I won't buy without trying on, shoes and bra's and pants. There are so many I try in what is my basic size but due to different styles, the size changes. You might fit a 6 or 7 size for this shoe. So get over the fear to bring it up and see if he wants to do this all over. You never know, the designer in wanting a happy pleased customer may give a discount on the 2nd pair since it wasn't really their fault the first time.

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Razhie answered Thursday November 5 2015, 6:03 pm:
Cannot be done.

Your feet have no fat and not even that much muscle. They are largely bone. They cannot be shrunk. You should speak to your husband about the error. You cannot possible wear those shoes comfortably or without hurting yourself.

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