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My friends are not talking to me, they think I cant live w/out them
My friends are not talking to me, it is been a week and when I chatted them if they are mad at me they msg me 'We are just trying if u can live without us'. I feel offended of what they told me.I want to talk to them but I when I talk to them they may think that I can't live without them. How can u help me
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Sounds like thay've set-up a bit of a game at your expense to me mate? Can you think of any reason why they want to 'test out' the strength of your friendship? Have you done anything to suggest you don't value them and would be better off without them? Quite possibly you have done no such thing, and it's just something they've decided on between themselves. I'd be tempted to play along with them. Message them saying something like "Come on guys! Stop giving me the cold shoulder. I miss you." I'd guess that's what (for someone strange reason of their own!) they WANT you to say? So give it to them! Unless there really is some genuine bad-feeling between you (which you'd surely know about, wouldn't you?) then it'll all blow-over and you'll have a good laugh about it. Sometimes friends have these outbursts of wanting to 'wind each other up a bit', as you might say. That would be my approach.
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