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make girlfriend cum
im looking to spice things up in the bedroom for my girlfriend and i was wondering if i could get some tips she mainly likes getting eaten out but i want to make her feel like the only girl in the world any tips?
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IF love is involved in your relationship then the best thing to do is to make her feel wanted..
as a female i love to be held and kiss while being intimate but thats me... I'm more of a making love type person,
i would want a man to make love to me then after tell me I'm beautiful and while he does that look into my eyes that moment there will be stuck in my head like all day maybe on and off during the week
somethings could send chills through a womans body, what sends chills through mine is when i get a kiss but not just any kiss but like look in my eyes talk low and slow and meaningful then gently touch my face to kiss me that would drive me nuts
tell her she is all you want and you can't find what she has in no one else.
basically don't make your sex life with your mate just about sex, make love and passionate love, listen to the way she breaths and you will also makes this moment special for your self,
i hope i helped lol remember make love to her :)
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tiegen already gave lots of info. I only want to stress the importance of good communication during sex, not just when getting used to a new sex partner. See, you can already tell from previous advice giver that there is a lot involved and its not as simple as you may think. You do need to ask her how what you are doing is feeling to her. Not only do all women have different things that work for them but some times, there's a woman for whom its always different...what worked last night feels rough the next night. What didn't produce an orgasm last night all of a sudden brings on the best orgasm for her ever just the next day. Thats kinda how it is for me so theres a great need for both me and husband and we are older folks, to communicate always, not just when we first became sexual together. Its the same for him. He may want me to do something different at any given point in time and will let me know.
So really, its never gonna be about surprising a lady so she feels special, its gonna be the good communication that afterwards has her feeling like the most special, treasured woman in the world.
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Hello :) first of all, every girl is different. They enjoy different things sexualy just like men, but too much of the same thing can become very boring. The first advice I could give to you is get to know what she likes either by asking her (without imbarassing her or making her feel uncomfortable) or work out what she likes by trying out new things. She may not even know what she likes. But, one thing no one tells you (or girls for that matter) is that it is usualy difficult to make a woman orgasam by just penetration. (I didn't know this untill about 3 months ago and i've been having orgasams on my own and with a partner for over 5 years) I thaught something was wrong with me that I couldnt cum just through penetration and had to fake orgasams sometimes so I wouldnt ruin my partners self esteem. If you are great with your fingers, brilliant, but be sure that your parrner is just not being polite and pretending to orgasam so she doesn't make you feel bad. If you aren't too keen, buy a vibrator iether with her or as a surprise (I baught 3 for £10 on love honey and they give me great orgasams. And also as a bonus...vibrations veel really good for guys too) the most important thing is to make sure you are both comfortable with this.(dont get Jealose of a piece of plastic. Nothing will compare to the feeling of you to her. And dont buy anything too big or offencive (unless shes into that )it can be intimidating or preasurising. (Something like a bullet or egg vibrator is perfect if you are having sex at tge same time as using the vibrator because it is small and comfortable.) Once you decide weather to use a toy or your magic fingers, the first thing to do is lots of fore play. It makes it so much easier for a girl to cum if she is turned on alot. If she is having problems getting wet, use saliva or lube. Do not let her go dry. This will hurt her! Once she is very turned on, start rubbing on her clit gently with the toy or your fingers. (If using a toy, put the vibrating speed onnlow and be very gentle to start. Hard vibrations can hurt or feel uncomfortable. Or if she is comfortable, let her use the vibrator on herself) do not penetrate her untill she has that deep lustfull look in her eyes. Insert your fingers or penks into her slowly (if having sex lie on your side and have her lying on her back, facing you, with her legs over yours so you can give her clit lots of attention.) Gently slide in and out of her and try your best to hit her G spot (if you do not know where that is, reasearch on the internet) for a woman to achieve orgasam, they need to concentrate and have to have a constant rythm so once you are both comfotable, try not to moove her or yourself around too much. Turn the speed on the vibrator(or your dingers) up gradually and thrust into her vagina slow but haed onto her g-spot. You will know when she is going to cum when she goes tence, her vagina tightenes (she may push your penis out of her, but do not break the rythm and use your fingers if you can not get back into her) she should cum in about 7+ minuits if you do this. Just make sure both of you are comfortable.if its her first orgasam she could take up to 20+ minuits.
Hope this helps and you give her an incredible orgasam :)
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