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im looking to spice things up in the bedroom for my girlfriend and i was wondering if i could get some tips she mainly likes getting eaten out but i want to make her feel like the only girl in the world any tips?
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Hello :) first of all, every girl is different. They enjoy different things sexualy just like men, but too much of the same thing can become very boring. The first advice I could give to you is get to know what she likes either by asking her (without imbarassing her or making her feel uncomfortable) or work out what she likes by trying out new things. She may not even know what she likes. But, one thing no one tells you (or girls for that matter) is that it is usualy difficult to make a woman orgasam by just penetration. (I didn't know this untill about 3 months ago and i've been having orgasams on my own and with a partner for over 5 years) I thaught something was wrong with me that I couldnt cum just through penetration and had to fake orgasams sometimes so I wouldnt ruin my partners self esteem. If you are great with your fingers, brilliant, but be sure that your parrner is just not being polite and pretending to orgasam so she doesn't make you feel bad. If you aren't too keen, buy a vibrator iether with her or as a surprise (I baught 3 for £10 on love honey and they give me great orgasams. And also as a bonus...vibrations veel really good for guys too) the most important thing is to make sure you are both comfortable with this.(dont get Jealose of a piece of plastic. Nothing will compare to the feeling of you to her. And dont buy anything too big or offencive (unless shes into that )it can be intimidating or preasurising. (Something like a bullet or egg vibrator is perfect if you are having sex at tge same time as using the vibrator because it is small and comfortable.) Once you decide weather to use a toy or your magic fingers, the first thing to do is lots of fore play. It makes it so much easier for a girl to cum if she is turned on alot. If she is having problems getting wet, use saliva or lube. Do not let her go dry. This will hurt her! Once she is very turned on, start rubbing on her clit gently with the toy or your fingers. (If using a toy, put the vibrating speed onnlow and be very gentle to start. Hard vibrations can hurt or feel uncomfortable. Or if she is comfortable, let her use the vibrator on herself) do not penetrate her untill she has that deep lustfull look in her eyes. Insert your fingers or penks into her slowly (if having sex lie on your side and have her lying on her back, facing you, with her legs over yours so you can give her clit lots of attention.) Gently slide in and out of her and try your best to hit her G spot (if you do not know where that is, reasearch on the internet) for a woman to achieve orgasam, they need to concentrate and have to have a constant rythm so once you are both comfotable, try not to moove her or yourself around too much. Turn the speed on the vibrator(or your dingers) up gradually and thrust into her vagina slow but haed onto her g-spot. You will know when she is going to cum when she goes tence, her vagina tightenes (she may push your penis out of her, but do not break the rythm and use your fingers if you can not get back into her) she should cum in about 7+ minuits if you do this. Just make sure both of you are comfortable.if its her first orgasam she could take up to 20+ minuits.
Hope this helps and you give her an incredible orgasam :)
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