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fingering and periods correlation.
My boyfriend fingered me hard last week. Got blood on his hands. And now I am late for my periods. Is my hymen broken cause there was lots of blood. Am I safe ? I am 21.
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If you're wondering if fingering can delay a period the answer is no. Can fingering tear a hymen if this is the first time, yes. Tampons can do it too, so can your own fingers or any sex toy like a dildo. Having a rough edge on the finger nail can easily tear or scratch too at any time in your life or not having enough lube. I can't know what you feel 'lots of blood' to be as you and I may measure amounts of such a thing differently.
If you were bleeding amounts that could fill a sanitary pad for periods, then its more likely it was your period and it may have been a short one if you bled the next day too or if you're prone to some lighter periods with just mostly spotting.
I have known sex to bring on my period rather than delay it, especially if it was about to start calender wise but wasn't for some reason. If I was feeling crummy with the wait, I would ask the hubby to have sex cus within a short time after, it would start. I think it has something to do with the movement of the womb during sex and during orgasm that helped initiate the release of the un needed lining of the womb.
Hymens are quite stretchy, like a rubber band so for many females, it simply slowly stretches to the needed size rather than tear. Tearing happens for some. Often tearing can occur of the hymen or any part of the vaginal cavity no matter how long you've been having sex, if your partner forces himself in too quickly when you are not fully lubed and ready. The same goes for use of fingers. Any kind of hard rough sex can produce some spotting that you notice again for the next couple time you wipe after going pee but there is no need of a period pad.
You did not spell out what else was going on previously. So if he had some of his own fresh cum on his fingers, even pre-cum, there's a chance of live sperm being on his fingers and transferred inside where they have a chance to go fertilize your egg if there was an egg released to fertilize. Often, just the worry of having any kind of sexual play, even without the penis in vagina sex, is enough to make a girl worry and stress over the possibility of becoming pregnant. So the worry and stress alone is enough to make your period late to start. It likely will start soon. If it doesnt, take a pregnancy test for peace of mind. You are of an age where most likely you will begin to have sex more often now so its a good idea to go see your Dr. and have a talk about your birth control options. Don't rely just on a condom, cus lots of girls have gotten pregnant without having the penis ever inside her. Birth control is a pretty good peace of mind and worth it, rather than worrying every time after having sex. Thats no way to live and actually enjoy the activity.
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