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date advice
So, I finally got my crush, like I always thought it would be crush, but turns out he is into me, and just woo ! But, we going on a date, having Chinese, just any tips, for if it goes quiet, because I'm one of those people that get so nervous I can't talk, anytips, any good subjects to talk about?
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Fine at least one common interest, and go from there. Try your best not to talk too much or too less. Be completely honest with him and just try to hang out with him without calling it a date. FocDayton being best friends and in sure that the relationship should work out the way its supposed to. Good luck hun and relax.
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I'm so happy for you getting your crush! That's exciting. Here's the thing you need to remember, the hard part is over - he already likes you and asked you out! You don't have to make him like you anymore. You just have to MAINTAIN it. So the fact that you get nervous and can't talk is probably something he already knows and thinks is adorable so don't worry too much about that. The truth is the pressure is more on HIM than you. He's supposed to take you out and try to impress you and get you to like him. It's the beauty of being a girl. The pressure is usually on the guy. Truth is, HE IS ALREADY INTO YOU and he's probably nervous too! When you can't think of something to say, don't freak out, look at him and realize he's probably freaking out trying to think of something to say too. So bail him out, ask him if he's nervous? Speak what you're thinking about - be real - if you can't think of anything else speak exactly what you're thinking - tell him you're nervous OR ask him if he is. Or if you're afraid to tell him what you're thinking then look around and point out someone else and wonder out loud about them - "I wonder if they're on a first date too like us". It'll take the attention off of you for a minute and give you a chance to relax. He's probably worried he'll do something YOU don't like. In the end there are two things you have to remember - 1. What you're feeling he's probably feeling too. And 2. This isn't just about how much you can get him to like you, it's also about him wondering how much YOU like HIM. Remember THAT when you get nervous and use it to calm yourself down. Also, always laugh at his jokes and remember to touch his arm every so often - it tells a guy you like him. Good luck!!
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Hi there. Now here's a little tip that almost never fails. Listen-up for some subject that HE is interested in. Maybe you know already something that he's keen on? Ask him about that. Listen to what he says and think up intelligent further questions you can add as he goes along, to keep the conversation going. At the end of the night he will have been talking quite a bit about stuff that he is interested in. And is savvy and confident about. And 99 out of 100 times the guy will go home thinking "Hey...What an interesting and intelligent girl. She's nice." Thing is, us guys kind of love talking about ourselves. We especially like subjects we can sound knowledgable on too. Play this to your advantage on early dates. Maybe some of the stuff isn't really that interesting to you? It does not matter one bit. Pretend! It's like the way one person dominates conversation at a dinner party. Mostly we're all thinking "God, he doesn't half go on. He's a bit of a bore." But he goes home thinking "What an interesting party/bunch of people." Us guys love an audience and we're better at talking than listening a lot of the time. You know, I'll probably be thrown out of the Honourable Society of Blokes for giving you this information!!! Have fun on your date, and remember this little trick.
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if you don't really know much about the person, ask them questions like whats their favorite song or something at least like that. if you do know them quite well, ask them how long they've liked you for and why didn't that person say anything before and tell them some jokes but don't use your phone because it might just all ruin it all for them and you. ask them why exactly chines restaurant and that kind of stuff.
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