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Iam missing my Dad. My boyfris begging me to come over tomorrow is it wrong for me to ask him to spend the weekend with his Dad because I wish I had one to spend time with?
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I wouldn't say it was wrong, as such. But it might be the wrong choice when he's obviously very keen to be with you. I would rather hope all three of you have plenty of time to be together in the future? I can see your point. But it's quite possible that his Dad will be very pleased that he's off to spend some time with his girlfriend. A person who makes him happy? Parental love is very often about wanting their offspring to be happy and doing the things they enjoy, and recognising that it may not always involve being in their company. It's a different love with a partner. Quite often that's about being together as much as possible. His father (and mother) may well take the view that he's keen to be with his girlfriend, and that's all very right and proper that a young man should want to do just that. Assuming there's no bad feeling or animosity between you and his family which I do not know about, why not arrange a get-together (dinner? day out?) some time soon? ]
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