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can not meet a woman
I am 52 I moved to las veags 3yr ago.to help my mum,about 3 months after I was here I ended up having 3 disks and a rod in my back.i have had 3 more surgerys. at this point I live with my mum I do not drive,i have no friends,i am no were near the peron I used to be I am deprest, I have been on line dateing not going well. I am 6-3 240lbs I am retierd, need help thank you
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I understand the need to socialize and use your mind to interact with people. If there are no places close enough to walk to or take a bus to, perhaps you might consider using the internet to socialize, but not with on line dating. With dating, no matter male or female, when looking for a partner, everyone has their own set of ideas of what they are looking for and some can judge instantly when it comes to meeting and you have no way to meet a person at a coffee shop and need a ride from the female and live with your mom. I know theres a good reason for it but most people cant see past that.
So for now, I would like to suggest on line simulation called "Second Life." It is a similation in which you create your avatar and interact with other people on line doing everything people do in real life, like dancing, horseback riding, surfing, shopping, decorating ones home, meeting and dating people on line.
In fact, there are a lot of retired people doing this. It is a great outlet for the really old old people who still have a sharp mind, or those with handicaps, lingering illness or stuck in wheelchairs, etc. My hubby and I play. He has talked several times to women whose sole job is to be 24/7 caregiver for a husband who is slowly dying. She has no conversation or itimacy with him and just needs people to talk to and have romance on line with. It isn't limited to what is just like the real horse, but you can experience being a fairy, an alien, an animal, a vampire, etc... whatever you can dream up, its available in Second life. It takes a little US money to get going but the nice thing is that the game money, called Lindens are approximately a ratio of $4.00 us DOLLAR equaling $1,000. Linden. So it doesnt take too much to get started. People find ways to earn game money inside the system either as DJs for clubs, as a performer, singing for one hour jobs in bars and dance ballrooms, or helping host or hostess such a place. There are those who get paid to help build things like real on line universities are in there where the students create and avatar and listen to the teacher also an avatar give the lessons and it actually counts in real life for attending the school. No, its not a replacement for real life datiing but it does take care of a persons needs to socialize. You can be doing that while still keeping a profile going on a dating site.
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