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How to convince my parents to let me wear diapers?
I am a 14 year old girl and I really want to wear diapers and use them. Like pee them. I know I am weird but I can't help it! Should I start wetting the bed on purpose? What happens when they take me to the doctor? Even if I only wear them to bed that's fine. I don't really NEED to wear them 24/7.
I can go to the store by myself but my dad won't allow me to because of the crime rate here.
Please help me out.
I am from South Africa.
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Some people get a sexual pleasure from wearing diapers though the pleasure comes from having someone change and pamper them. I do not think this is this issue with you. Wanting to wear diapers is a bit strange for a 14 year old girl and without a reasonable explanation.
Wetting the bed on purpose won't cause your parents to buy you diapers. In fact as a parent I would say it would probably have the opposite effect. They would probably have you continue to sleep on that bed and to clean the sheets each day.
As to what would happen when you see the doctor? Most likely the doctor would ask you why you are wearing diapers or want to wear diapers. If you do not have a medical reason to wear them he or she might suggest to your parents they have you see a psychiatrist or psychologist to find out the reason behind you desire.
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I have heard of quite a few teens having issues with bed wetting into their late teens, and it was confirmed by family dr to be more likely passed down as a condition in the family. Maybe not the parents but the grandparents did when younger. I know a gal married into my family who did so until she was 18 and her two sons are both bed wetters.
Teens are usually very self conscious and tend to have low self confidence, and something like this only makes things worse. Its usually a matter of waiting to outgrow it when your bladder learns to become stronger. But a Dr. can confirm that. In the meanwhile, waking to a wet bed is very smelly, messy, disruptive of sleep and humiliating. I believe that it is the best idea to purchase adult diapers for teens to wear for this purpose. Actually I wish I had thought of it during the years I had a period, now in menopause. I messed clothes or the mattress at night so often I wish as an adult I had thought to just skip the pads that didnt cover well enough on heavier days and just wear an adult diouch in their sleep to be able to count on one of those flat absorbant pads you lay under you likes ones used in the hospital. those move too easily to remain where most needed.
So hon, my opinion is that this is not weird at all but actually a very acceptable interim solution until your bladder matures and no longer needs the diapers. I do not believe that use of diapers will make you become dependant on them, especially if a Dr. is involved and monitoring your progress. Show them my response to you here and hopefully they will realize that it is a good thing to do for you. I would still try to not automatically pee in them and see if you can wake to go some times middle of night to bathroom. Of course follow Dr instructions also regarding what is the lastest time you can drink fluids and how much before going to bed. good luck.
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