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I like him
I like this boy. Idk if he likes me too..he stares at me 24/7 and his freinds are weird around me....what do you think??
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Maybe. Maybe he does. Maybe he doesn't. Who knows, right? My advice is to not yet assume anything out of that. Because for me, if he really likes you, then he'll find a way to talk to you or maybe even have the guts to tell you. Do not assume, alright? Because if he doesn't, (well, hopefully he does) but yeah, if he doesn't, you would just be hurt. Whose fault is it if ever? Yours, right? Don't assume, but also don't close any door. :)
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I agree with rainhorse for same reasons, yes he likes you, at least as much as he has been able to see from observing you. So your next question will be what to do if its a given that he likes you? It depends on your age and any dating limits the parents have set for you. If they never set any, talk to them and find out. If the age they give is several years off, you tell them you have a guy at school who is a friend (even if not yet established) and ask if its okay to have him come over and visit you at home like your girlfriends do. YOu will abide by any rules they set if its okay with them. You might agree with them you understand being too young to do formal dating but you do want to learn how to understand boys better and how to be a good friend with them first so that you are better prepaared for when you are older and can date.
This type of reasonin, if you truly agree with me, shows a level of maturity and willingness to cooperate with them, and not lock them out, allowing them to be able to counsel you in how to understand guys better. Both Mom and Dad are good founts of info . on this. I remember even going to Dad cus he's a guy and telling him what a guy said or did and asking him what it meant when a guy did that. It is your parents job to parent you including through this period of life when you're growing up to interest in guys and eventually dating. Allow them to be a part of it, and you'll find they should have no problem allowing you to have a male school friend over to visit. If you have their approval to do so, with any guy, the next step is to approach a guy and ask him if he'd like to hang out with you sometime. If he says yes. Then let him know its okay with the parents if he comes over to your house but only when they are there, is he okay with that. If you find a guy who is not afraid of meeting your family and being watched by your parents, you have found a very nice self confident guy. Many will be too chicken. But this is a good way to start.
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I think there's a very good chance he likes you and is interested in you. That would explain the reaction of his friends when you're around. And those who study human behaviour have used eye-tracking equipment in tests time and time again and proved beyond doubt that if we look at things considerably more frequently, and for longer than usual....we're interested in them. There you go...scientific proof of the saying "Can't keep your eyes off of it/him/her." We really can't, even when we don't know we're doing it It's an involuntary/reflex response, as the science-geeks call it. I reckon you're in mate!!
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