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Goodbye lettter


Question Posted Thursday May 28 2015, 2:56 pm

One my friends is moving away and I want to write her a goodbye letter. I honestly don't know what to say. What are somethings that I can say to her? I also have a crush on her soo
I'm a girl btw.


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Grandfather answered Saturday May 30 2015, 5:58 pm:
Here's a template that perhaps you can modify into something that represents your feelings: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)

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candicegomez answered Saturday May 30 2015, 12:50 pm:
well i think it is a wonderful idea to write her a letter.i have done it too, because to be honest i suck at stuff like that.i cannot really tell you what to say to her but express what you really feel.for me writing is easier that talking.i'll tell you what hepls me write .i just start writing and then i start getting 'inspired'.so try to start writing it maybe it will work for you too.you could also listen to music that reminds a memory of you with her,look at your photos etc.and i am sure that even if you write the silliest thing,she will appreciate your trial.its the gesture that counts and not what you write.try your best and it will be fine!i promise-xoxo hope this helped

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namebrandproduct answered Friday May 29 2015, 6:25 pm:
in the letter you could probably ask her to visit again or ask her out?
i dont know if you want to go forth with the relationship and tell her you have a crush but if you do you can say to her something like 'if you ever need a girlfriend, i'm here' or something like that.

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adviceman49 answered Friday May 29 2015, 10:23 am:
Saying good-bye is one of the hardest things we will ever do. The French never say good-by I'm not sure how to spell the word but what it means is "Until we meet again."

If she is this good of a friend that you cannot let her leave without saying something to her; why not say something like this.

"Rather than say good-bye for it hurts to much to loose a friend I value as much as you." "I'd rather say, lets stay in touch." Let's set a time each night that we can chat over the internet and catch each other up on our day and things going on in our lives." You can tell me about you new home and town and I can tell you what is going on back here" "Then maybe one summer we can visit each other or take a vacation together." "I know it won't be the same as having you here I just don't want us growing apart your to good a friend for that to happen."

Of course you use your own words but something to the effect of what I have written. Fact is depending on your age, if you a teenager most of the friends you have know you won't have as an adult. The reason is that once you leave high school you part ways and go off in different directions. Most go off to different colleges in different parts of the country and even different parts of the world. Some go into the military and a few stay at home and get jobs.

Because of this you will all grow and mature differently and make new friends based on where you go to school and your changing interests. It would be nice and some people to manage to stay in touch with some of their high school friends but the friendship does change over time.

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onlyurs answered Friday May 29 2015, 2:55 am:
hmm its very hard to say everything in a letter.Saying bye is the most difficult thing I have experienced.First just think the days you have enjoyed together and write it in the letter the best moments to be remembered by her.

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mysterygal answered Thursday May 28 2015, 7:03 pm:
the only way to really say goodbye is to not say goodbye at all.... the way I will go about it is be honest tell her all the good times you guys have together what makes her your best friend list miles in last and cries anything good think of you to basically plan this letter I would be just honest.you guys can stay in touch by skyping Facebook I mean my best friend lives in Florida and I'm in Connecticut my best friend now has a son and I'm going to visit her next year so he could be baptized and I will be the legal godmother so distance doesn't break a friendship you guys can go years without talking in and pick up the phone and feel like you guys just talked yesterday so never say goodbye because you never know if it's really the end always say see you later talk to you later it's never really goodbye but good luck and in your letter make sure you be honest I'm sentimental and truthful

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