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school's player
theres this guy from my school and he's pretty hot and popular. he finds me attractive and he said he'd hook up with me.
I want to kiss him but I've never kissed anyone (I'm 16. I swear im not ugly or a nerd lmao).
Should i tell him before hooking up or just let it happen? I don't want him to think that im a bad kisser.
Im just so scared cus i want this to work and everyone says we've got some short of connection.
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I think you should know him better...If he is a player then many girls will be swooning over him ..so hangout with him and then you can be sure about what you do.
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No don't say anything before hooking up. Just a note of caution if he is football 'player' but female 'player' as in seeing many girls all at once, this type usually has no regard to you and your feelings and very often its sexual conquest that is the root cause of him going after any girl.
So if u r ok with a kiss leading to something more, or him mistaking your kiss as meaning you want sex, then all is fine. But if I were you, I'd at least start to carry condoms with me, just in case cus you can't trust that a guy like that will be thinking of this. If he's a player, you need to be prepared for a heck lot more than just a kiss.
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Nah you probably shouldn't tell him. If you guys get into a relationship and get somewhat serious, then you can tell him later, like, "hey so ya know something? You were actually my first kiss" and it'll be a cute story and then he knows so yay.
Hope this helps~
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If he finds you attractive then I think he would understand if you told him! It'll be better that way because then you can start off slow! BUT if you do decide not to tell him and the kiss is the most awkward and uncomfortable thing you have experienced..don't worry! Just laugh it off, in a few years you'll think back to it and it'll just be funny! If he's a jerk about it...just consider yourself lucky...at least you'll have enough practise to perfect your skills for the right guy! Good luck!
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