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Is she playing games or she really just don't know who it was
So got this girls number waited about a week to call Monday called around 8.20 pm didn't answer the phone but in about 20 minutes later she called 2 left a message Tuesday got to talk to her I mention about me calling she said o I didn't know who it was you should have texted me back hmmmm this other woman that I am really interested I work with her lately she's been asking me to hangout with a woman there radar are always strong when it comes to courtship she knows that I am interested but just holding back making sure that the interest is mutual so one day just got done doing something well then one day went to work got to see her she's been talking about doing something with me so then I pulled out my phone and I said well I'll let you know on our first date so then waited in about a week to call Tuesday
around 8.15 it ring 4 times then on the 5 I heard her voice saying hello as if she doesn't know who it was then I said something then after that it just said ended on my phone so then I waited a few minutes to call she didn't pick up what the hell is that all about action of interest is there she's been wanting to hangout showed her a pick of my friends then she goes why was I not invited got her number wanting to fiinally hangout with her crap it's like did she purposely hangup the phone when I heard her on the phone it seems she doesn't know who it was the crap is driving me nuts it's like self-control is a must I feel like going to work I feel like asking what is going but then you can't cause it well just show weakness and I know weakness is a no no I am thinking the next time I see her I'll just be like so what's up talk for a bit then say give me your address pick you up at 9 Tuesday all this shit about playing games shit man she knows that I've been there for 6 years not ones I've ever dated somebody
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Its not like you're calling several times a day or every day of the week, that would be odd and scare a girl off thinking you're needy. But asking for an explanation, just depends on how you word it.
What if she's had a problem with her landline or cell for some time now and just hasn't realized it yet. I actually had once an older cell that acted as if it was possessed by some weird power. I could have it on and it decided to turn itself off while I was waiting for a friend to call me. I had many other odd issues with my replacement phones for the ones that were lemons. At one point I was on my 3rd phone and had the problem of not being able to hear anyone on a live open line, seconds ticking and volume all the way up.
then again, yes she may have had 2nd thoughts and wants to avoid you and this is her childish way of doing so. In which case, if she could act so childishly, do you even really want to pursue someone like that? So heres what you do. Next time you see her in person, just say, hey, the strangest thing happene when I called the other day. In thinking about it, I can come up with only two possibilities, one that your phone is acting up and calls are not getting through cus I heard you but you didn't hear me, in which case I thought you'd want to know in case others havent been able to reach you either and you may want to get it looked at. The other possibility I came up with is that even though you trade numbered and seemed interested in me at one point, you've had second thought and didn't know how to say so. I would rather you just be honest and tell me now if thats the case and I will stop persueing you, but you need not worry over creating bad blood here at work, I will still treat you friendly and with respect as I do all other co workers.
this way you are not accusing her of anything which is good in case it really was her phone. Or, what if she has a major hearing problem and doesnt want to get checked out cus she hates the idea of wearing a hearing aid??
then if she's changed her mind, you've just given her a way out so she doesnt have to feel awkward. If she's not avoiding you, and she's a mature person, she'll give you the words right then to confirm she's still interested or say something along the lines if she's really interested. Why at this point if she likes you, would she risk losing you because you are assuming no answer means she is not interested. I would hope she's not a fool. So go for it.
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