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Long distance, hard times
Hey, so a few months ago I started dating this girl. I absolutely love her, but long story short, she has her phone taken away, and I can't contact her at all cause she's like 2 hours away. I honestly haven't talked to her since like February or March. I love her, but I'm not even sure if she's happy, cause her friends won't answer my calls for help. Now I've been talking to a few other people, but I just can't seem to let go of my love :( I don't know what to do, please, I need advice. Someone help me. Btw, we're both 14
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In my opinion my young friend. Love is for all ages, yet it has different perspectives when getting older. All I can say is, love is not to be criticized but to think about... You are just 14, When did you know this girl or where you met her I will not know. but, think with not just just your heart but also with you mind. you will find the answer for your problem.
In her parents'perspective. It's obvious They will tell you that you both are still young.
All I'm saying is that it's still too young to feel heart broken. You still have a lot to learn about love. Only time will tell if you and her will meet again. if you feel it will happen. Then it will. Just believe.
Hope this helps =)
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If alls on the level at her home with parents and no issues there, then once she has her phone back, she'll likely get in touch. I find it odd her friends haven't given you a clue whats going on but then again, maybe they don't know and she's too embarrassed to let them know why she's had her phone taken away. It may be that her parents have rules and she broke one and the way they mete out consequences for that is by taking away the phone. Compared to being sent to your room and still having your phone, i'd say phone restriction is the greater punishment and more likely to get her to fall in line.
Now there's one thing that came to mind for me. If her parents have a rule she knows about that she can't date until she reaches a certain age and 14 isn't it, perhaps they've taken away her phone for breaking that rule. In which case, there's little likelihood of ever hearing back from her unless once she gets her phone back, she contacts you. However If I were the parents, I'd be checking her phone to see who she's called and who's called her. And if she wants to keep her phone, she'll be smart and avoid getting it taken away again and not contact you.
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Don't give up on her. You said that she has gotten her phone taken away so she probably feels bad about not being able to talk to you. She'll eventually come back. if you can, try to contact people that know her and see her often. They'll be able to update you on her situation. You'll be okay. Just hang in there.
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