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too insecure
My boyfriend and I have almost gone all the way with each other. I love him and he loves me..he makes sure to tell me I'm gorgeous an ld beautiful everyday. He's just so nice to me and loves even the worst of my flaws. For the past couple weeks he has wanted to...finger ne and I know that I want it too. The only problem is that I'm insecure about my..down there area.. I'm afraid of what he'll say or think or that it won't be good enough or that something will be wrong with it. I just don't know why I feel this way or how to come to terms with it and accept the way i was made.
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It is funny how we all feel the same about our sexual body parts, especially when allowing someone of the opposite sex to see them for the first time. We all feel insecure that our lover is going to find something wrong with what we have.
If your lover really loves you and is not just lusting for you. Then what you have is what your lover wants and they are not concerned with how it looks, tastes, smells or how big or small it may be. They love you and your sexual parts are part of you which allow them to make love to you.
There is a big difference to sex when someone loves you then when someone is just lusting for you. Many guys confuse the words love and lust. In fact many believe the two words are synonymous. Sex with them will be different as they will only be interested in satisfying themselves. They too are only interested in what you and is what they want without concern for how it looks. The difference will be in how you feel as the use you for their own pleasure.
Besides my advice not to worry how your sexual parts look. Please make sure your boyfriend really loves you and is not lusting for you.
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Im quite certain that your female body part is no different from any other girl on the earth, you should always be happy with the way you are and boys normally don't care. If you feel uncomfortable you don't need to accept, just take things slow and eventually you will realise that your intimate partner would just have to accept you for who you are x
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I think thats pretty much what every single person on the face of the planet thinks the first time their about to do ANYTHING naked with someone. lol
so just take it slow and eventually youll let him do it. turn off the lights if you need to the first time.
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