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I have a very sweet boyfriend that wants to have sex. He is my first boyfriend and I want to , but im scared I will get pregnant. I know to use condoms but they can break. And if I were to get pregnant everyone would look at me like a whore. Should I wait?HELP (link)
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Only if you want to, then it is okay to have sex. You need to understand that because things are good in your relationship now, it shouldn't mean that you feel obliged to have sex with your boyfriend because of it. You seem very uncertain and fearful, and if thats the case then its sign that you are not ready. If you are willing, speak to your doctor or an elder about the best form of contraception in order to prevent pregnancies as we know, no form of contraception is 100%. In the meantime think about all the repercussions of sex and assess if its worth it. If you have adequate knowledge and understanding about sex and its consequences then you are mature enough to proceed from there! It all comes down to you, just make sure you are not feeling pressured or forced to do so since it should be from both sides. Good luck, I'm sure with great responsibility and care you will avoid the pregnancy circumstances. :)
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How do you know when a guy likes you ? I'm sick and tired of guys asking me out to dinner but then I later see them hanging out with other girls ...
I just can't read guys, they're just so vague and complicated (link)
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If a guy likes you, he would make it obvious that he is interested by verbally clarifying it. In the meantime i know girls can be completely different in the way they show clear signs that they are interested which is why it can be so hard to communicate such things. Boys who play games are a different scenario but in simpler words if a guy likes you and is interested in you, trust me he would make it happen. Also, don't wait around for boys who don't know what they want, if you are interested in someone just be out there and tell them ! at least you know you tried, and there is no shame in it. Guys can be so hard to read!! good luck with everything x
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My wife recently told me that her feelings for me aren’t there anymore, and while she loves me, she doesn’t love me like she used to. In a follow-up conversation, she let me know that she has feelings for a much older coworker of hers (16 year age difference). She says nothing has happened with him, but she’s confused with her feelings at the moment and doesn’t know what to do.
While heartbroken, I feel like this could have been much worse. And I’m struggling with what I can do or say to her to make her keep her commitment to me. She has said that none of this was my fault, but I’m sure he’s giving her more attention and communication than I was (we had gotten to the “comfortable” stage).
Obviously I can’t force her to love me, but I’m struggling to come up with rational ways to verbalize why she should stay. Can anybody give me advice on what I could say? What I’m trying to get at is yes, I understand that a new person can be exciting and fun, but we have already built the foundation to make a marriage go the distance.
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Aw :( this really upset me because you are still willing to try. Remember you deserve better than to feel second best and sometimes you must prioritise yourself. If she has no sympathy for you than you shouldn't have any for her. I know i sound completely heartless by saying that but i am only telling you what i feel is right. Truth is your happiness is more important than a marriage your holding by the skin of your teeth. Learn to let go and you will love again. If you have kids, it completely makes your situation harder but whatever you do i hope it all works our for you in the end. Best of luck. Again, I'm sorry you're in this situation.
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Kan u get preghante when he rubin his across your pussy (link)
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That spelling though lmao, nope chances are you're not. but you can never be sure
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I really like this girl but I don't know how to open up to her. Can you guys tell me what to say? (link)
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First of all, do you know her very well? and does she know you too? if thats the case than don't be shy, whats the worst thing that could happen? just tell her how you feel and let her know that you'd like to get to know her and I'm sure she wouldn't reject, if this girl is liked very much by you, I'm sure she is nice and caring so wouldn't think of rejecting you! and after all girls love confidence so don't be shy xx
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My boyfriend and I have almost gone all the way with each other. I love him and he loves me..he makes sure to tell me I'm gorgeous an ld beautiful everyday. He's just so nice to me and loves even the worst of my flaws. For the past couple weeks he has wanted to...finger ne and I know that I want it too. The only problem is that I'm insecure about my..down there area.. I'm afraid of what he'll say or think or that it won't be good enough or that something will be wrong with it. I just don't know why I feel this way or how to come to terms with it and accept the way i was made. (link)
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Im quite certain that your female body part is no different from any other girl on the earth, you should always be happy with the way you are and boys normally don't care. If you feel uncomfortable you don't need to accept, just take things slow and eventually you will realise that your intimate partner would just have to accept you for who you are x
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So me and ny boyfriend had unprotected sex 3 days before i was supposed to start. I was supposed to start may 2nd but i havent started and he didnt cum inside me but were not sure if he was precumming..could i be pregnant ? Because i had been on medication the week before and ive been super stressed for about 2 weeks already (link)
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You can never be certain, i would advise you to take a pregnancy test and there is no shame to it plus you can be sure of the outcome. Remember, whenever you have unprotected sex there is a chance of falling pregnant. If by any chance you may be pregnant, you are not alone and you can always find help. If you are not then remember to use protection and stay safe! hope all is well x
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