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I need advice about this relationship
I really like this girl but I don't know how to open up to her. Can you guys tell me what to say?
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If you want to confess, remember that you have to make it very clear that she'll like that confession. So befriend her first and dont get nervous.
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I'm not quite sure by what you mean, "to open up to her." If you mean to introduce yourself or she is someone who knows you and you know her but you would like to become friends or date her. Then I suggest the following.
The best way I know to get to know someone is to find and interest or something that you have in common. Not knowing your ages I'm hard pressed to pick an example but a generic one would be something like Hiking.
Let’s say you find out that she likes to go on a hike which is something you like to do also. You could go up to her and say something like, "Becky I hear you like to hike, have you ever hiked any of these trails." Then list off some of the trails you have hikes. It's possible you will hit on one she has not hiked on yet but wants to or won that is her favorite. In either case you could invite her to hike that trail with you.
When people have something in common to talk about it relieves that awkward stage of trying to find something to talk about. Common interests are the key to every friendship. If you can learn of her interests she may have one you like. If so you have the basis of a friendship.
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First of all, do you know her very well? and does she know you too? if thats the case than don't be shy, whats the worst thing that could happen? just tell her how you feel and let her know that you'd like to get to know her and I'm sure she wouldn't reject, if this girl is liked very much by you, I'm sure she is nice and caring so wouldn't think of rejecting you! and after all girls love confidence so don't be shy xx
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