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There is this boy at my school who is a heartless son of a gun. He makes fun of kids because he is spoiled to the core. I go to the boys and girls club after school and some homeless kids go there and he makes fun of them or other people just because the don't have nikes or Jordan's. When ever he bullies someone I stop it then he wants me to laugh with him and i tell him it's not right but he says "I don't give a f---." And moves on. He also bullies me he calls me gay he punches me puts me in submission holds and the teachers do nothing in sick of it please tell me what I should do. I literally had dreams of killing him tell me what to do.one more thing in in 8th grade and going in to high school a different one than him but I want him to learn a lesson before I leave
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Does one of his parents come to pick him up from school everyday? maybe if you go up to his mother or father and tell on him personally, and say you just wanted to let them know before the school notices and does something about it, then the parent may take it more seriously and NO parent wants to have to take a day off work to go down to the school to talk to the principal.
if this kid does this to you again, you CAN go to a teacher, tell them what happened and that you cant breathe because he was strangling you like he does to the other kids and if theres any marks from what he did thats even better because then theres proof.
Theres always going to be kids that taunt and tease because they really just feel weak inside and bad about themselves. The key is to find what will make him act right and use that to your advantage. (not promoting any kind of fighting or harm) just saying TALKING to him or getting someone that he WILL listen to, to talk with him about this. Thats why the parent can always be your first line of defense.
If hes doing this to many other kids then get the kids to ALL tell their parents and then maybe even tell THEIR parents if you see them that this kid that to your kid today, i thought you should know, and then walk away. easy as pie right?
No one wants their child treated like that and the complaints will start to pour in once you get parents calling the school and ALL saying it was this one kid. THAT will definitely get the schools attention.
((also they sell nikes and jorden shoes at walmart now, so those arent "high end" shoes anymore so idk where hes getting the idea that their cool still. that style has been "out" since the 90's" lol))
This is the best advice i can give you. If you have a camera and you see him doing things like this to other kids RECORD IT! then show the teacher immediately.
good luck!
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I assume the club is connected to your school, if not, you have 2 different authorities to complain to. For any mistreatment at school, you need to go to the principal. Until they have a pattern of complaints filed, or they catch him doing it, its just one persons word for the other. However when several different kids abused by him bring up the same issue, action will be taken. You can make a start.
Here's the grounds you have for legally complaining. The verbal taunts and such are definitely 'bullying' which from what i've heard thru media, most schools no longer tolerate.
However this kid takess it further with 'physical assault which in the eyes of the law (police and courts) not school rules, is an offense he can be held responsible for and will go on a record of him. If you see him bully others or punch or grab them, its not okay so talk to them and tell them you'll go with them as a witness to file a complaint in the office.
The big problem is, sometimes adults don't listen to children when they complain as you've found out with teachers who witness this. Basically, they have no clue. And school staff and board are very afraid of pissing off parents, probably even his and so they do nothing. But getting your parents involved is critical if you want to get somewhere, and the parents of the other kids too. Don't think you can't head up a big change like this, people are always looking for someone else to follow, someone else who had a plan and will lead and take charge to get the ball rolling. End result is this kid may end up expelled from school which wont teach him a lesson. He's beyond that and only a medical proffessional can really begin to help him. But you and others would be free of his menacing presense and that is a good goal to work towards.
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