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should i continue dating man who is married got two child with different mo
Im dating a man now weve been dating fir two months. He got married when he was 23 and got one daughter. Last 2013 he got another son with different women but they got separted now the custody if the child is with him. his open to me with regards to his family and child . Though our dating still remain secret ..the two of us only know were dating . im still single his older than me about 10 years older shoul i continue to date him?
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No, you should not continue to date a married man. That is not the right thing to do and I know that you would feel bad if you were in his wife's position. Don't do things without thinking about how you would feel if that was done to you. You should tell him that you don't want to see him anymore because It's the right thing to do.
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Love may be blind but even a blind person can see that this guy is not someone you should be dating.
1. He is all but telling you he can't be true to any women that he is a cheater.
2. He is dating you in secret which means he is cheating on his wife now.
3. He has had a child by a woman other than his wife.
4. He wants you dating to be a secret because you just some sex on the side that he can have when ever he wants.
Is this what you want. Waiting around, sneaking around for a few hours of pleasure with him when he wants it. I would think you would want the whole package husband, children and house with picket fence in the suburbs.
You deserve a lot better than someone 10 years older than you who only wants you for his own pleasure. Take more pride in yourself that you deserve better. He will never leave his wife and even if he did. Why would you want someone who you never know whose bed he may be sleeping in.
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No. He is married and he evidently makes a habit of cheating. Any man who wants to keep your relationship a secret...weather they admit to being married or not is bad news. Red flags should go up and you should run the other way & not look back.
Find a nice guy who wants you and only you.
Don't let this one sweet talk you into staying in a dead end relationship.
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Hey there! I think you should think about if the love you have for him is worth going through the stress. You will have to bear in mind that he has a wife and his parents will most certainly not welcome you with open arms. Also his kids would see you as an intruder. The fact that he started a relationship with you while he is married.. what makes you think that same thing won't happen when in future you two get married? Why not looking for a man that will be fully for you.. that at least isnt married?
But if you are very sure of him maybe after a while of dating him then let him show you that he is serious with you by announcing your presence in his life.
All in all its your decision to make, to listen to your heart but also your brain and make sure he isn't just taking advantage of you.
Hope my advice helped *peace*
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