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My 13 year old friend is smoking weed and having sex
She started dating this guy a few weeks ago maybe a month. the first day they started dating he sucked her boobs and they have had sex and shes given him blow jobs. I know all of this cause she told me and i saw her text messages. she also started smoking weed which is really easy to get were i live. i feel like i should tell someone but i dot want to get her in trouble whet do i do?
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I wont want to sound like a mom, so im gonna advice you this... Sex? That isnt really bad in terms of physical aspects, though its indecent, smoking weed though, that's the prob... My advice is use all your capacity to stop her, if you cant, then you need to tell someone else. If your afraid that this'll ruin your friendship, then you're selfish, why? Because a true friend would risk everything for the sake of one's state.
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I think some of what she is telling you may be false. She could just want to sound cool to you and others. Almost always adolescents who brag about experiences never had them.
Even if she did she should keep it to herself. You can get a reputation for blabbing about your private life. Politely tell her that its not right to kiss and tell and that while you are a friend you dont want to hear about it. That is a reasonable request.
As far as marijuana goes she will have to learn from mistakes. Unless you see her life completely out of control which you havent telling on her will unfortunately cause you social problems. You can tell her that you dont like what she is doing and think she is in with the wrong crowd but you cant make her see. If she were in danger than tell.
As for sex she could get pregnant or taken advantage of by other people. You should make your parents aware of what she has described to you and her sudden interest in msrijuana. They will know how to guide you and when/if they address her family at some point. Your parents should know about anything or anyone making you uncomfortable.
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