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Sexual life
I want to sex with my gf how to convince her?
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You have to get her in the zone i recommend to just make out with her and slowly give her a hickey on her neck and then move down slowly then bam it happens
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The fact of the matter is the word convincing when used in relation to sex equates to sexual harassment. Sexual harassment is today’s hot button and is illegal. You can and be arrested and charged with sexual harassment if you try to convince your girlfriend to have sex with you.
Obviously for whatever reasons she has she has said NO to you as for as having sex with you. NO means NO and you have to accept the fact that she does not what to have sex with you. Whatever her reasons are they are her reasons and she owes you no explanations.
Do not do anything to try and force her to have sex with. Do not say to her; "Have sex with me or I'm leaving you" or "If you love me you will have sex with me." Lines like this are sexual coercion and sexual harassment both of which are illegal and you can be charged with both.
If your horny stick to masturbation or whatever she is willing to do for you to give you relief. To try and convince her to have sex with you is not worth running your life over. She does not have to be the one to make the complaint, anyone who hears you or you or she tells someone what you are trying can make the complaint. So it is possible if you were to try and convince her that talking with the police is in your future. For as I said to begin with sexual harassment is today's hot button and boys as young as 14 have been arrested for doing so.
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This is not something regarding a matter of convincing. Think some guy could convince you to have anal sex with him? Or how about someone convincing you to pierce your nipples or penis? Ouch. Well, you are not going to want to do anything that you do not already want to do. Maybe you're gung ho ready for anal sex. Maybe you'd never let a guy even get near you while naked. Never in a million years.
You see, guys tend to be confronted by sexual desires all the time from a very overactive penis so when you want to take care of that itch or just experience sex with a girl, when you do the act, it's usually because of lust, not love. Females other than the 1% who are different, always want love first to be ready to have sex with her guy.
So guys will pretend, lie and say they love a girl, be so very nice until they get the sex they want. Then they leave behind a girl who is upset because now he wants nothing to do with her or if he does hang around, he isn't treating her like he loves her anymore and they finally get the message that it was all about lust and not love as they hoped. Yeah, maybe its not the kind of love we have when we want to marry, but love and caring about the other person to the point you wouldn't do anything to hurt them or force them is still important no matter what your age.
The girl who has been lied to by a guy and lost her virginity to him or given him sex under falsehoods from a guy are going to be sure to spread the word and any other girls you've done the same to. What could be worse than not having sex right now and having to wait until you meet a girl you really care for who actually wants it too? Having a bad reputation that goes before you, spread by females upset with you so that you no longer have a chance with any decent girl.
Sorry if this sounds harsh but understand as a female myself, I have heard the grapevine of which guys to avoid cus they were players who took advantage of you.
And I've had the guys who try to "convince" me to have sex to no avail. If it's something that I didn't want, there was no way they could convince me. Young teen girls might fall for lines like, prove that you love me by having sex, but the smart ones like I was, never did. The few who do, get passed around to all the guys cus she's easy to trick into giving it up. You don't want to cause that kind of bad karma to be following you around.
Sex is not something that proves you love a person. Plenty of men and women have sex purely for a recreational reason, no love. But sex is the best way you have to show a girl that you love her, it's a gift to her, not something you take from her. I hope you understand what I am saying cus I don't want you to end up on the wrong path. Plus, if the sex if with someone you love, it's way hell more exciting and special and mind blowing than just sex to curb ones itch.
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