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I had another dream about my boyfriend and this same guy the other night...
So I was talking to my boyfriend in the dream, and he started talking to my friend from school on text. He was saying some shit to him, and my friend got really pissed. When I came back to school in the dream, he demanded me to break up with my boyfriend.
Then I went home, and I went in my backyard. There was a huge television screen. And the same guy that I've NEVER met or seen in my life had made a video. He was talking about how I have saved his life and gave him the happiness he hasn't experienced in so damn long.
What does this mean?
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Before I even guess at it as dreams are best interpreted by their owner, I'd like to mention that when we dream, it's not our conscious mind with its logic and real things in life that made sense that is in control. When you sleep, your subconscious mind reigns supreme and the subconscious is where all our emotions are stored and come from. So it stands to reason that when we dream, it's very likely that at times our dreams will reflect anything that is significant to us to the point our emotions are involved. That's why after watching an emotionally moving movie, you can fall asleep to dream yourself in a scene from the same movie. Its also a time when what is important to you, what you wish and hope for is dreamed about, things that make you happy.
Then,that which is currently making you worried, anxious, concerned, really sad or depressed or angry is also dreamed about since it weighs heavy on your mind.
I don't know you or your boyfriends personalitys or lives so remember these are just guesses. Once you really look at it from the viewpoint I just mentioned, some of it will already make more sense to you.
Dreaming about a boyfriend is simply because he is important to you. Perhaps you see no faults in him, or you do but overlook them as not significant. Perhaps he is a person who in real life has difficulty controlling his impulses and says and does things that upset other people. So you dream of someone getting upset enough with him to suggest you leave him. Maybe he doesnt upset or step on toes of other people and its only with you he's comfortable to do a lot of little things that you don't like. By day, you figure you can deal with it. But at night, your subconscious mind, like the other half of you, is trying to tell you that you are starting to wonder if he's really worth staying with because these lots of little things add up to one big issue that doesn't bring you peace.
Now on the other hand, lets say there are no problems with him at all, in fact he is so unlike most the immature guys his age that you wonder if he's for real. Yes, some are but there aren't many. It could be that in the back of your mind, you are wondering if he can really be all that perfect and doubt what you are seeing, expecting that one day when he thinks he's caught you for good, he'll show his true self.
Or you've decided, you never want to date another guy ever again, he's the one for you for life and yet you see others go through relationships, like they go through socks and underwear, every changing. So your emotions are ones of fear of losing him someday, either something in life happening to force you both apart against your wishes as in the friend demanding you break up with him or another equally great guy, (unknown to you because he doesn't exist in real life and only represents your fears) shows up to try to tempt you away from your boyfriend, and you are afraid you don't have enough loyalty to stay with your guy and that you could easily be lured away by another who claims to be in love with you or some such thing.
Does the backyard represent anything to you? For me, being outdoors is where I'm able to calm myself. I don't know what it means to you but the first thing that pops into your mind is probably going to be correct, even its it a memory of the one thing long ago Mom had a backyard birthday party for you and it was such a perfect day that it made you so very happy. Then to you the backyard would represent happiness whenever you see it in a dream, it won't mean the same to any other.
As for a TV in the backyard...dreams don't have to make sense compared to the real world. I'm sure very few people actually have a TV set in their yard. The only reason you saw one there is again because it represents something to you that only you can know. To give you an idea, I'll use myself again. To me, a TV represents two things, a venue from which I can be entertained or obtain real life news and documentarys and such. the rest is not for real, just stories made up for sitcoms and movies for the purpose of entertainment. So its where I view that which is real and that which is not real or make believe.
So if I saw a TV in my dream, it would mean that I was wondering if something in my real life was for real or not, could I trust it, or can I trust my ability to figure it out on my own.
That is the best I can do dear. You can't bend the meaning of your dream to reflect the things that are important to your conscious mind when awake. You can only use the interpreting of your dream to discover what is important to that
'inner you' represented by your subconscious. I believe in myself it represents my 'inner child' if you've ever heard that mentioned before. It is best to learn to acknowledge that inner self, your subconscious as one of two identitys that make up you as a whole, you can't have one without the other. So the best thing is to acknowledge the needs and concerns of this inner part of you and allow it to have it's voice and learn to really listen to it. Most times, it clues me in to things I didn't see otherwise, but on occasion, like a child, it can come to childish idea's and conclusions and needs the balance that my rational mature awake mind can bring to it.
Good luck.
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