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Wrong dream??


Question Posted Thursday February 26 2015, 8:11 pm

So in one of the dreams I had this morning, all I can remember is some girl with short dirty blonde hair in a ponytail saying to me, flustered, "What are you doing here, this isn't your dream, you're not supposed to be here! Your in the wrong dream, this isn't your dream, you can't be here!"

I've never had a dream like that. The dream pretty much was over after she was done shouting at me; like I left because she told me i needed to go. So my question is, is it possible that it was a little more than JUST a dream, maybe something bigger? And what could it possibly mean? Thanks.


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solidadvice4teens answered Monday March 2 2015, 11:44 pm:
Think of it this way dreams are nothing more than thought pictures. When you dream you are seeing your fears, desires, things you struggle with, imagine and believe.

Why? You may be asleep but your brain is still processing this stuff and it manifests itself in dreams. It cannot harm you no matter if it's a nightmare.

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Dragonflymagic answered Friday February 27 2015, 7:49 pm:
For the most part, our dreams all are generated by our subconscious mind and any meanings to our dreams and what we see and experience during the day, what's important to us, and the subconscious being where our emotions live and generate from, what is bothering us or emotionally important to us will come into a dream. If it's a one time occurance, it probably doesn't mean anything. If it repeats, there may be something to it that you have to figure out why it's happening. Now here I will share two examples one from my life and my sister. We both have a few physic gifts, non we seek after, but being that we don't nurture it, happen to crop up at odd times. My sister once told me she wasn't really good sleep lately. When I asked, she was having nightmares every night of people dying in a tsunami, every night it went on for almost a year and then the 2004 Tsunami that hit Sumatra happened and the dreams immediately stopped. Then she had nightly dreams of flooding and people drowning again just before hurricane Katrina hit, and after it happened, the dreams stopped. I know people who have heard from loved ones who have passed on, in their dreams..in some circumstances even before knowing with their conscious mind that the person had died that night. I used to have a dream that would repeat, not often, but it bothered me, being a female and Christian at the time and in my dream I was a male and marauders were trying to break down our door to get in and I only wanted to protect my family. We broke the door down and what I did was hand to hand fighting in which I simply snapped each ones neck because I was that strong a male. Some time later in life as I began to believe other things the church didn't, such as reincarnation and that souls can take turns being born as a male or female, I finally understood why I had those dreams, in some previous life I was a male and had killed to protect my family and had guilt over it. When I understood that sometimes killing in defense isn't an option but a must to survive and God won't punish me for that and that I had been a male in a previous life, the dreams stopped. I haven't had them now in way over ten years.
Some people have lucid dreaming. Some claim to be able to do astral traveling.
I believe that a soul can manifest to someone in a dream to communicate. If a soul that no longer has a mortal body to be able to do that, then logically it would stand to reason that there is a possibility of a live person during sleep, has a soul able to leave the bounds of his earthly body without danger of dying and astral travel, perhaps to someone elses dream while strictly in their soul form. Although I have not yet heard of any accounts of this either through life experience or through any books of peoples experiences, I have seen a movie and read a book or two that have used this concept. This is something that science can not prove even if it was possible so without a way to prove it exists or not, I will not say it isn't possible. If it happens all the time, as I said, then truly something is happening, whether your subconscious mind is actually picking up on memories of a past life, which I feel is very possible as Its happened to me, or whether somehow you and another girl have some kind of psychic link you never sought. If there is a link, you'd begin to have lots of these dreams year after year that don't go away. No one talks much about psychic giftings but you can find out more reading and checking up on clairvoyance, clairaudiance, clairesentience and others. I know a gal who had all of them as a young child, age 4 or 5 on. If any such abilities surface unbidden in someones life, it seems the greater majority do not see anything like this until their teens or in their 20s. For me, it didn't show until late teens early 20's. So I wouldn't worry about it. It doesnt make you abnormal. All people have these abilities but are born with it buried so deep in them than it never surfaces in their lifetime. In others, it voluntarily shows up. It doesnt make you a crazy person at all. So if you DO have another such dream, don't freak out. Just hold a normal conversation in your dream and try to gather information that can prove you right or wrong as to whether this other person exists or whether its just lucid dreaming.
If I had the experience you did, I would ask questions. I met a spirit guide 10 years ago and when the image of the odd looking male showed up in my mind, he looked so real, I opened my eyes to look where he'd stood but no one was there and I was awake at the massage appointment, face down on the table. I asked who are you and things like that. In your dream, it may help you feel some control and feel better asking who she is, what year, and date it is for her and where she lives and get a phone number from her. If once awake you can check out what you got in your dream and contacting the number asking for her by name brings her on line, then it was for real ending up in her dreams. As to why, it'll be for you and her to figure out. Any other such questions in the future, I'd be glad to listen and share what I think.

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Razhie answered Friday February 27 2015, 3:07 pm:
Possible? Sure. It's also possible a baby grand piano will be shoved out of a window by a cat and crush you to death next week.

But there is even less evidence of dream-based communication between people, than there is of cat-based piano projectiles.

So it's unlikely. Technically, the piano death scenario I poised is probably more likely. Science tells us that our dreams, although fascinating, are really just the screen-savers of our minds. They help the mind order it's thoughts and stay healthy. They are made up of only our own thoughts and ideas. To think otherwise is wholly unsupported by any evidence what-so-ever. It's a matter of faith and superstitions.

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