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saying the right words
so I'm relatively new to actually expressing my emotions so I don't want to mess up on this. I want to sing this song I wrote for the person I like and I want to tell her, but I don't know how to say it without sounding....stupid. Because I have the tendency to act completely stupid when it comes to being around her. And today had to be one of the best days I've had with her, we were smiling/laughing the whole time and messing around on the bus ride home. I don't know, it's just been a good day and I haven't been this happy in awhile. I just want to know what's the best way to say how I wrote a song for her. Not exactly sure how to present it...if that helps.
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You basically asked this same thing recently. Now you've said a bit more. It sounds like you are not close friends yet, just acquaintances from school or riding the bus so you need to at least show you have an interest in her first as a friend and possibly more before you sing your song.
Its a very good sign that she enjoyed talking to you and laughs and smiles with you. If a guy didn't like a guy, she wouldn't talk to him or smile and certainly not laugh. She wouldn't want to sit near him if she's not interested in him at all.
So, she's interested, that means you need to ask if she'd like to hang out sometimes and give her your cell number and get hers. Start talking and finding out more about each other, what you have in common and focus on doing those things together, like perhaps bike riding, listening to a favorite music artist together, you both like same genre of movies, or maybe books. Go to a library, choose a book together and spend time together taking turns reading it aloud to each other. Theres so many possibilities. After you've spent some time with her, then let her know you have something to share with her, a song she inspired you to write.
The reason you get tongue tied and feel awkward or dumb when around her is because you have these genuine feelings. If you didn't it wouldn't be so important what she thinks of you. Relax, everyone goes thru this. Best way to handle it is to tell the truth when you are around her. Just say that you're feeling nervous and dumb right now because you really like her and hope she doesnt mind. You'll find she's most likely just fine with any awkwardness and perhaps didn't even know.
Good luck.
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