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Should I suprise her?


Question Posted Saturday February 21 2015, 12:34 am

Hey so um, I've been trying to do something special for my girlfriend, and I think I found something good to do. She told me what school she goes to, ( we go to different schools ) so I looked it up and I found the schools number. I know it sounds COMPLETELY stupid, but I think it might be romantic if I made like a little announcement on the speaker phone sayin something sweet or something. I know it's a dumb idea, but you see I really love her, and she knows that, I'm just a dumb guy tryin to do something special for his girlfriend. Honestly, I think it's great but I'm wondering if it's the best thing to do, should I?

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lightoftruth answered Sunday February 22 2015, 2:18 am:
I don't think it's a good idea. You never know how she'd react to something like that. She could either think it's great and sweet or she could be embarrassed.

So I'd stick to something you know she'd love. Maybe get her flowers or write her a cute love note. All girls appreciate those kinds of things.

You don't have to do something huge, just do something you know she'd like.

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Kori_Rice answered Saturday February 21 2015, 6:03 pm:
Yes! You should totally do it. Even though she knows that you love her, the whole school needs to know it too. They need to know that she's your girl and that they shouldn't try to approach her because she's yours. It's super romantic and cute. Girls love to know how guys feel about them, just make her day and I promise you that you wont regret it.

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solidadvice4teens answered Saturday February 21 2015, 2:11 am:
That may embarrass her a lot though your intent was good. Also, I don't think a school administration would let a random person call in and use their PA for such purposes anyway. Even if you were a student and tried it in person they wouldn't allow that. It would backfire even if you could.

If I were you I would think long and hard on the kind of things she likes, her interests or something she's been wanting and give her that kind of surprise. This doesn't have to be elaborate she may appreciate flowers, dinner alone together, or a date that revolves around things she likes to do or do do together. That's something she will remember.

If you aren't sure what to do try consulting a sister if she has one, her mom or friends of hers to help you plan something special as they know her well and for the longest. Stay far away from the bullhorn though.

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