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pardon the title, I couldn't think of anything better to title this.
so to make a long story short, my best friend's gone to another school and as happy as I am for her, I miss her so much already. Call it stupid but it's true. She was the one who got me through my worst moments, kept me stable, kept me smiling...she was the best of me. I know you're all going to be thinking "it's a part of life" but listen, try to see this from my perspective. She's the one who made me happy and as cliche as this sounds, she was the best part of me and I couldn't thank her enough for everything she's done for me. She never found out (or so I believe she never knew) how I really felt about her. I liked her at first glance and after awhile, I fell in love with her. It's better she didn't know because she was taken any way and I respect her enough to back off. It's pretty stupid I'm crying over the fact we're apart....we said our goodbyes today and I'm going to miss her. I don't know what to do about people asking me about her. I'm scared I'll break down in front of them
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if you have facebook look her up she might add you i say just maybe she write you on there so see how you doing , if you still have her number call it maybe she will answer , even if she knows where you live she will write you a leter so you can writ her back , try to keep in contact let her know her know how you feel about her , i think you should let her know you like her , and that is a good thing that she helped you through the worst times you need someone like that , maybe you will find a good friend like her . but also have contact with each other .
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It's normal. And I'm sure you know this.
This is a loss. There are tons of ways we lose people and no matter what, each loss will hurt.
So it'll take time, but you'll feel better eventually.
Give yourself time to heal. I'm sure you'll see her again someday or at least keep in touch.
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Im not sure what you meant by you "fell in love with her" are you a guy or a girl that likes this girl?
secondly, how far has she moved? cant you still do things and spend time with her outside of school?
youll be ok, just continue to keep in touch with her. Show her how much you value her friendship and she will see that and do the same in return.
she can still be your closest friend even though shes not at school with you everyday. Shes probably going thru alot right now too trying to adjust to a whole new school so right there youve got conversation and things to talk about like how her day went and all that.
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sorry i accidentally posted that twice.
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I know this may be very hard for you and I understand, its tough. It's okay to feel upset and go through a mourning period. It's hard when you feel like you're losing a friend or if you are. You're not use to spending time away from her and it may take time to adjust which is only natural. There are many important people in life and you can still talk to her and hang out with her when you can, it's not over. In the mean time try to keep yourself open to new friends, don't hide yourself or keep your head down because you may miss the best person who has yet to come. My advice is to look up this video called "Look up". It is a very inspirational video that made me realize so many more things in life that I had never really thought about.
Let me know!
Good Luck!
I'm here for you
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