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I didn't rape anyone
Thanks for your comments to my original question. But I haven't raped anyone. It was a lie by the person. They're just using it for attention and presents.
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Hi there. I had a look at your original question too. Seems you were convinced yo did, now believe you didn't. The facts are sketchy and not conclusive so I'll maybe point out a few facts. Although rape is usually an aggressive crime, having what we might call 'rough sex' (where you might be somewhat forceful, or dominant) with a consenting partner is not rape. The key is NOT whether you went at it a bit energetically (as we might say), the key is CONSENT. Consenting to sex with someone and regretting the decision afterwards (however strongly one regrets it) does not mean the offence of rape has been committed either. Agreeing to sex while under the influence of alcohol or other substances do not make it rape either, unless they were administered without that persons knowledge or permission. Rape is when an individual, or individuals have sex with another person without that persons consent. Simply, you force them to have sex against their will. By physical force, or by deliberately impairing their judgement by secretly or forcibly administering substances. If the other person does not consent, it is rape. If the person says no at the point sexual contact is deemed to begin it is a clear-cut case of rape. Current legal practice is strongly in favour of 'anything other than YES means NO'. It makes no difference whatsoever if the other person seemed 'up for it' (to use common slang) and was giving every indication of wanting sex previously. If the other person gets into the subsequent offenders car, or invites them back to their home, or agrees to go home with the subsequent offender, or any other social arrangement at all was made it makes no difference either. If you had sex with them without consent, and against their wishes you raped them. If the other person was "below the age of consent" it is rape by default, whether they agreed to sex or not or even if they initiated it themselves, since in the eyes of the law they could not legally give consent. Hope this helps straighten things out a bit for you chap? Might pinpoint whether you did or did not?
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Dear I didn't...
Although I didn't answer any of your previous questions, I've reviewed them carefully.
My advice to you is to seek out some help as you appear to be very confused and hurting. I suggest that you contact the center for mental health in your area. They can help you to put all this in perspective in a safe, supportive, confidential environment.
I do wish you the very best with hopes that you'll be able to resolve this conflict and move on with your life.
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It is hard to answer this question without seeing the original question or knowing if I answered your original questions. There are facts missing her that are needed in order to advise you.
There are several different types of rape. There is statutory rape. This is when someone, usually an adult, has sex with a minor. Then some states also have clauses within this law covering age of consent and difference of age.
You can also be charged with rape if the person, who may be over the age of consent or even an adult, is unable to legally consent to sex. This would generally mean having sex with someone who is too drunk to give consent. You may think the sex is consensual bit the next morning the person you had sex with has, call it buyers remorse, and says they were too drunk to know what they were saying.
Rape can also be charged is the person you are having sex with withdraws consent during the act by saying no or stop and you do not. The sex may have started consensually but becomes rape if you don't stop when told to. This can be very confusing for a guy as some women will say stop or no when they really mean yes and others really mean no or stop.
Then of course there is violent rape as we know it to be.
If any of what I have detailed above fits your situation then it is unfortunate but even though the sex was consensual you may have violated the law and committed a rape. As the saying does the devil is in the details.
If none of the above fits your situation then it is unfortunate if the person claiming to be raped is fabricating the tale. For when it comes to sex crimes the innocence of the person accused has to be proven. With all other crimes the accused is considered innocent until proven guilty.
Hopefully this helps you better understand your situation. IF not write me back, you can do so in a private message, with the details of your situation. Knowing the details of your situation I may be able to give you better information.
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