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I think I'm pregnant and I don't know what to do
I am a 16 year old girl. My boyfriend is 15. We have not had sexual intercourse but we do engage in oral and sex play from time to time. Two weeks ago we were doing what many hormonal teen couples do and he ejaculated outside ( he never went in) and some semen accidentally got on my vulva. We stopped immediately and I cleaned up as best as I could. I've searched all over the internet but I can't seem to find an answer. I understand that there's a low chance but I can't seem to get the possibility out of my head. My boyfriend is also very worried and is providing support and reassurance. My period is extremely irregular (I once spent 6 months without menstration) so I can't just wait to see if I missed it. I haven't taken any taken any pregnancy tests yet but my boyfriends bringing me some this Sunday. If I am pregnant I don't want to have an abortion but I'm not in the position to raise a child. I take the SAT in two months and I'm six credits away from graduation. I want to still be able to see my son or daughter if I choose adoption and one day be able to take custody but I have a feeling it won't be that easy. I'm so ashamed I've disappointed myself and I'm probably going to disappoint every one around me. I have plans and they're all gonna go to ruins if I am pregnant all because I felt as though I had to make him come. What should I do? I'm so scared....
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yeha i agree, i say go try and get the plan b pill, it will force your period to come so even if anything IS afoot inside you, there will be plenty of time to put the kebash on that before it develops on a serious level.
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If you are worried, there's a pill you can get at the pharmacy plan b or they probably have other stuff now. It's been a couple years since Ive taaken it. It's like a day after pill but you can really take it 3 days and some I think even 5 days after you had sex. BUT if he didn't go inside of you...you are fine. If he pulled out you are fine. :) Hope it works out girl! I'm pretty sure you are not.
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It's very unlikely that you're pregnant. However, it's good to take those tests, but make sure they're not cheapy ones. If you're still uncertain after those, then I suggest you get it checked out by a doctor. (Even if the odds are against it) it doesn't have to be for that specific reason, just get a physical that includes the vagina area and such) I will say, though, that you really should get the fact that you can go six months without your period, checked out. That is extremely abnormal for your age.
Hope this helps~
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