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I want my brother to go away
I'm feeling terrible. I can't stand my brother any longer. Actually, he lives in another city, and is spending his vacation time at home. Thing is that he won't do anything at home, he doesn't help us with anything and sleeps the whole day! I hate him! How can I cope with this situation? It's aweful, since I don't want to confront him either; I just want him to go away!
Thanks in advance!
(p.s please, I don't want ''adviceman 49'' to reply to this message, I mean it. Thanks again!)
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I'm curious why do you not want me to answer your question. I've answered quite a few of you questions. Do you not like my answers or are my answers not what you want to hear. There is a difference. You can answer me in a private message if you wish.
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It's hard to answer without knowing both of your ages or knowing if you live with parents, ect.
Well if you do live with parents, my advice would be to talk with them since you don't want to talk to him yourself.
Unfortunately, you can't make him go away. I don't know how long he'll be there but if it's not for a long time, then try to hang in there. If he's there for quite awhile, then the only solution I can come up with is talking to parents or talking to him yourself.
You don't need to attack him and complain to him, but just ask him to help out.
But other than that, I'm not sure what else to do. Hang in there.
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I don't know how old he is so i cannot fully determine what you should, but from what i know, give him the choice to help or leave because he needs to know being on vacation doesn't mean you get to be lazy and selfish.
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